This is a general long-term question, not a “what do I do right now?” question. This has plagued me for decades. This one thing has cropped up many times over the years. The situation is always with a girl I know is ready, and things are about to get serious physically and there’s a last minute “what about your GF/wife?” Always worded exactly the same. That one locks me up. My brain wants to say “WTF are you talking about, you don’t give a shit”, but I just stammer out something . I’d say progress at that point has been 50/50. I can’t ever remember how I respond that’s successful. What the fuck is their goal with this last minute blocker, what are they trying to accomplish? What’s the best way to deal with this?