In my LTR I got sloppy for past few months, didn't passed a dicent amount of shit tests, failed allot on complacency test. But got my shit together and now I'm more focused and I do better. But one thing bothers me. My LTR at home is nice to me, we have sex whenever I want, so no problem there, but when we out with friends or her family here inner bitch shows up (started not long time ago).
She is acting like I'm not there. Ignoring me most of the time, and some time jokes really badly. Something like "I always got lucky playing cards, and always unlucky with finding love". Friends even say to here that this shit is not funny and you should not do this kinda stupid jokes in public.
Most of the time I'm ignoring it, but I do think that I need to bring it up. I want to say that I will not tolerate this shit, and she should pick here words and act like an adult and not a spoiled brat.
Actually, I know that she did this thing with her EX, so it's kinda a pattern here.
But I'm not really sure is it good to bring it up? or should I just ignore it and pass here shit test, be more Alpha every day and this will end?
And if so, maybe some tips how should i bring it up
There is an underlying story. She moved with me to a new city 2 months ago as I got a job. And she left her family and friends and a job. She is angry at me(but not saying it to my face) and for sure she blames me that her life quality dropped. Now she got only me as in before move she had ( Me, Family, friends, and job that she liked) . Maybe I'm just trying to rationalize here, but I do think it is a big part of her actions.