Showing emotion and talking about how you feel?

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December 27, 2018
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So I just made a post about an “episode” I had due to my change in gear. And it lead me to one more question that I only seen talked about very briefly on here. And I wanted to get the vets take on things.

I learned so much through the red pill and past relationships. That this time I did everything correct right off the rip. I created boundaries, read the Mindful attraction plan and it changed my life. I implemented every fucking thing I could. I was BLOWN away at how good this relationships has been. It’s still fresh 8 months in but I am holding strong.

The one thing I get fucked up with tho is emotion and feelings. I genuinely love this girl and she is constantly telling me how much she loves me. How much she misses me. How she can’t believe a guy like me even exists. The whole 9 yards. And I reciprocate those feelings when I want to. Which honestly is a lot. I say it when she doesn’t cool shit. For example I saw this dope coat on a dude we saw at a resort we went to. She went ahead and called the place to find him to ask him where he got it and had it shipped to my house.

“I fucking love you”

How cool I thought. But then the red pill in my brain says stop talking about how you feel. I find myself talking about how strong I feel towards her. She reciprocates it. Mostly first. And tells me she loves when I say those things.

But then I get the though of “the red pill says don’t do this. She’s going to get bored. She’s going to find you weak. It’s going to come off needy. She’s going to Betatize you” and then I start to act funny and pull back.

My go to has been say how I feel because I want to and if I feel any type of shift in her. I pull back and up the alpha.

My question is when is it okay to show and talk about these emotions/feelings. When is it not? I feel like she’s eating it up most of the time but then TRP in me says stop. Again I say it because I want to but I always run into that mind block when I’m saying it.


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Title Showing emotion and talking about how you feel?
Author starky000001
Upvotes 8
Comments 13
Date 27 December 2018 06:08 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/203717
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/a9wlif/showing_emotion_and_talking_about_how_you_feel/
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[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

The audition is going well I see.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s still fresh 8 months in but I am holding strong.

You are still in honeymoon mode. She's not behaving the way she will once you are married.

Your babble might satisfy her now but will erode her view of you as alpha over time.

[–]plein_old3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you show her you enjoy her company, or even show her you love her, that's more important than a lot of flowery words, maybe.

As long as you're showing it, you can be playful and humorous with the words. You could even tell her she's awful! If you do it with a smile and a friendly attitude.

But if you're trying desperately to show people how "alpha" you are, that doesn't sound very playful or very humorous. It sounds uptight and paranoid.

[–]Tbonesupreme2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She sounds like she has BPD, and she's hitting you with the love bomb.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

PLEASE! Do an oys post about the stuff the red pill tells you. You are the profet.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red-2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy

You sound like a boring mid 20’s faggot who has no hobbies no male friends and has almost finished the marble pedestal to place his woman upon.

Translation: You are a faggot and know shit about RP and being a high value man.

You also probably have no business running gear. And you probably wear stringers to the gym to show everyone your high school abs because you are skinny AF.

Bitch.

[–]starky0000012 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Ah but you’re so far off. I have tons of hobbies just took up jujitsu also. I’m jacked not skinny been running gear for 2 years. I’m just human dude and learning myself through this journey

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Then you need to up the Tren and stop being a bitch.

[–]starky0000010 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Lmao tren makes me worst bro

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I dont know what to tell you then. You are very temperamental.

Could be me to. Just upped the NPP over here. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[–]Frosteecat9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get a room you two.

[–]BostonBrakeJob0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dance monkey dance!!!



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