So I just made a post about an “episode” I had due to my change in gear. And it lead me to one more question that I only seen talked about very briefly on here. And I wanted to get the vets take on things.
I learned so much through the red pill and past relationships. That this time I did everything correct right off the rip. I created boundaries, read the Mindful attraction plan and it changed my life. I implemented every fucking thing I could. I was BLOWN away at how good this relationships has been. It’s still fresh 8 months in but I am holding strong.
The one thing I get fucked up with tho is emotion and feelings. I genuinely love this girl and she is constantly telling me how much she loves me. How much she misses me. How she can’t believe a guy like me even exists. The whole 9 yards. And I reciprocate those feelings when I want to. Which honestly is a lot. I say it when she doesn’t cool shit. For example I saw this dope coat on a dude we saw at a resort we went to. She went ahead and called the place to find him to ask him where he got it and had it shipped to my house.
“I fucking love you”
How cool I thought. But then the red pill in my brain says stop talking about how you feel. I find myself talking about how strong I feel towards her. She reciprocates it. Mostly first. And tells me she loves when I say those things.
But then I get the though of “the red pill says don’t do this. She’s going to get bored. She’s going to find you weak. It’s going to come off needy. She’s going to Betatize you” and then I start to act funny and pull back.
My go to has been say how I feel because I want to and if I feel any type of shift in her. I pull back and up the alpha.
My question is when is it okay to show and talk about these emotions/feelings. When is it not? I feel like she’s eating it up most of the time but then TRP in me says stop. Again I say it because I want to but I always run into that mind block when I’m saying it.