Did you tell your wife about red pill?

Westernhagen · 2018-12-23T01:22:46+00:00

You are not playing on hard mode yet. After you have been married for a few years, you will be. That is when you will be glad you kept your mouth shut.

Grimsterr · 2018-12-23T08:09:01+00:00

Yes, I told her all about it, right after I taught the dog trigonometry....

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-12-22T22:57:47+00:00

From a upcoming post I'm writing:

What are Some Problems with the Books on the Sidebar?

NMMNG suggests that you tell your wife about your NMMNG exercises. We see this question on AskMRP all the bloody time. “Should I tell my wife about NMMNG?”

You do not talk to your wife about red pill. You do not talk to your wife about NMMG. You do not talk to your wife about your MAP. You do not talk to your wife about your gains. You do not talk to your wife about Reddit. You drink your cup of STFU. Every time you feel the urge to talk about your gains or how you’re changing, you need to beat that urge down with a stick. Punch yourself in the face if you have to.

“But why, Steel?” Look, I’ll break it down for you. Going to your wife about reading NMMNG or saying “look at my gains” is like going to your mommy for validation. Even worse than that, you are in her frame when you do that.

Don't talk about fight club.

parkerfiveone · 2018-12-22T23:23:57+00:00

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ishouldhaveacigar · 2018-12-23T13:32:35+00:00

My wife actually told me about MRP. Yea, I was so pathetic that she suggested it. Of course, I’m glad she did, and I’ve been transforming for about two years now.

I certainly agree that, as a general suggestion, we should not tell our women about the pill.

My wife knows about it, and she has definitely used her knowledge of it to elevate her shit testing abilities.

My wife is a Reddit enthusiast and still lurks the red pill subs. Soon after I realized the value of “Don’t talk about fight club”, I created an account that she didn’t know.

I also, accepted the challenge of having to learn how to pass shit tests anyway and not give a fuck about her knowledge of red pill. Once, as we were getting ready to go out for dinner, she said to me, “You can go use your dread game shit on someone else, because it’s not going to work on me”! I replied with a big grin and a chuckle, “You haven’t seen dread yet. I’ll be downstairs ready to go when you finish getting ready”. On the way to the restaurant, she apologized and expressed that she gets scared with all the changes I’m making. I assured her she will benefit from the changes.

Bottom line: Yea, not the best idea to tell her about red pill. But if she knows about it, you still use the strategies here; only you can fuck it up.

Vouch33r · 2018-12-22T22:51:09+00:00

You will seem fake in her eyes forever. Don't talk about the fight flub. Lead by example

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-12-23T00:32:18+00:00

“sharing the knowledge would make it much easier to discuss parenting.”

You haven’t swallowed the Red Pill.

Faggot.

robertwservice1974 · 2018-12-22T23:21:05+00:00

I didn’t tell her but she found out through my 18 year old son. (Have since had the bros before hoes talk with him.)

Results: more shit tests, some of which are pretty damn funny.

Today I left the toilet seat up after taking a piss. We we’re headed out on the town and she refused to go until I put the seat down. I said no. She said RP made me do it. I left without her.

If I had a time machine, I would go back and keep my mouth shut.

Bottom line: It created more problems.

red88lobster · 2018-12-23T05:38:51+00:00

You can teach your kids redpill knowledge without asking mummy's permission. Show them through your actions.

[deleted] · 2018-12-22T22:46:59+00:00

Helllll no. I cant think of a better way to muck up a good thing.

MrTrizzles · 2018-12-22T23:19:14+00:00

Talking about your self-improvement is a tacit acknowledgement of your failures.

SBIII · 2018-12-24T11:01:34+00:00

Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm.

Enjoy the Silence

JDRoedell · 2018-12-23T05:48:29+00:00

Redpillbrigade17 · 2018-12-23T12:34:28+00:00

How exactly sharing “ the knowledge “ would make parenting easier?

Remember she only cares about what she sees you do and how you act. Sharing your theories about life and why you do what you do will likely have a net negative effect.

Fritz_Frauenraub · 2018-12-23T18:35:08+00:00

Red pill works on women whether they know about it or not.

You can talk about anything, if you have FRAME.

You want to "share the knowledge" not because you want to "discuss parenting" but because you want validation, confirmation, "don't worry, you're doing this right".

In short you lack frame & SMPO.

Not talking about it makes it easier for men without frame to fake it.

470_2_700_nm · 2018-12-24T19:05:15+00:00

I think you have a unicorn on your hands.

What the fuck are you going to tell her about? You don’t know shit about red pill.

r_u_a_badfish2 · 2018-12-23T08:25:46+00:00

I didn’t have a choice. Wife found out about red pill on literally the same day I discovered it...I left the Reddit sub open in my phone and she saw it and started reading the side bar (lol). Yeah she hates it and shit tested me hardcore about it. But I did not give it up despite her hatred of red pill theory (the concept of “dread” really offends her).

Fast forward one year. I’m still studying and practicing RP theory and she still hates it. I don’t give a fuck anymore. I read RP books right in front of her. Why hide it at this point?

The way I see it is that RP is about me. It’s about my improvement. I gives a fuck whether she likes it or not. She’s still with me. Sex quality and frequency has only gone up.

ex_addict_bro · 2018-12-23T20:28:53+00:00

Jesus fucking christ, you god damn shit fuck piece of an idiot sandwich, which part of "DON'T TELL YOUR FUCKING BROOD ANYTHING" didn't you get?

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-12-22T23:18:42+00:00

Well all the married guys on Redman group wives know about red pill. Rolo is married.

If you have to post this question you should definitely not do it.

InChargeMan · 2018-12-27T05:46:32+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8pynnj/why_we_dont_talk_about_fight_club/

Mr_KenSpeckle · 2018-12-28T08:32:10+00:00

You shouldn’t tell her for the same reason a magician doesn’t show the audience how he is doing his trick. The audience that would have been amazed by the trick will be bored, and evenly mildly contemptuous, when they have already been shown how it works.

meivanlee · 2018-12-31T04:38:08+00:00

My wife sees all my stuff.. I’m active on Instagram @ivanleejackson

I don’t hide my name in these forums..

That said I’m consistent .. I’m always trying to improve myself and others so for me to be in here sharing my energy and thoughts is consistent with who I am.

Plus I say everything I’ll ever say here in front of her and any other human. Being authentic and true to myself is one of my calling cards.. I agree with a lot of redpill tenets , not even towards marriage but in regards to just being a man / leader. So zero shame in my game being here.

Auxfite · 2018-12-23T04:33:40+00:00

A wise man learns from others mistakes, a fool learns from his own.

Never talk about RedPill to women. The only reason I told my ex about it because she’s the reason why who i am today and how I found the RP. She has BPD and couldn’t believe the changes i made and was become more attracted. But the shit test just couldn’t stop she thought it was fake and I will definitely not tell any women about it.

RedPillCoach · 2018-12-23T17:57:40+00:00

My wife became suspicious at the first changes. Then she hacked my kindle and read all the books I was reading.

friendandadvisor · 2018-12-29T12:03:16+00:00

You're still plugged in.

Title	Did you tell your wife about red pill?
Author	serious_bs
Upvotes	11
Comments	40
Date	22 December 2018 10:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/203723
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/a8pavb/did_you_tell_your_wife_about_red_pill/