My amazing loyal wife who is also my best friend of 2 years who is 35 and myself who is 33 decided to have our first child this year and then something crazy happened. My wife became hornier than me!
We first started dating 6 years ago and it was amazing. We were both trying to impress one another as you normally do in a fresh relationship and she was initiating sex all the time. Two years into our dating this stopped. The BJs stopped and I had to ask for sex every time and to her defense she never did say "No" without good reason , but she would just lay there like a dead fish as I did all the work(worse than no sex to me). I started to fall into depression because of it and became addicted to weed and was drinking too much on top of that (Stressful job at the time too.) I asked if I wasn't performing as well when I knew I wasnt, but she said there wasnt anything wrong and that she is just shy and awkward about sex, I was like you totally were not this way when we first started dating and of course she couldnt give a good answer to that one.. I talked to her about it a few times over the years and she never changed so I guessed that was that and gave up and just watched some VR Porn to kinda get some of that feeling back (I know stupid, but it kinda worked and full filled that lame desire to feel wanted).
We decided it was finally time to have a kid since we are getting to that age and we both want one. Thats when things got strange. She turned back into her old self and started initiating sex and giving BJs again. I came home after work and she was on the couch in sexy outfit and it really shocked me into a powerless simp mode. Two months of amazing sex and she got prego and can you guess what happened next?...Yup, the switch was turned off. I felt so betrayed to the point of evening wanting divorce and just saying screw it we can raise the kid separate, but I love this women too damn much and I know in my head and heart sex isnt everything in life, but I cant seem to turn it off.
I feel this is gonna damage us down the road because when any other women gives me attention it makes me feel that way again and I hate it.
Update: Sorry I am not very good at explaining myself on here apparently. My wife and I do have sex on the regular, she just doenst initiate ever