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Business Trip Happy Ending

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December 9, 2018
6 upvotes

Went on a business trip for a holiday dinner, ended up getting a happy ending massage. Hamstering about it as me cheating on her, blah blah blah. Gut is telling me to move on and learn from it as something that doesn't align with my values..stfu and don't do it again..how have you guys dealt with similar scenarios? Sex is not an issue in the relationship, all other facets are solid.


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Title Business Trip Happy Ending
Author progression_101
Upvotes 6
Comments 16
Date 09 December 2018 02:33 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/203746
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/a4lcui/business_trip_happy_ending/
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[–]BostonT0010 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you were a 14th century soldier who was away from home you'd probably have banged a few whores in the foreign lands. Then you'd come home to your wife who'd been waiting for you and you'd be grateful for having a good woman. So be a man, quietly revel in your manliness and STFU about it to anyone and go fuck your wife.

[–]Redpillbrigade175 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Been there done that. Your gut is right. Meh, move on.

In the grand scheme of things of what a worthy, high value man deserves this is a drop in the bucket.

[–]WesternhagenWinner2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Never had such a massage myself. So I'm wondering... was the happy ending massage a superior experience to fapping?

[–]JudgeDoom690 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Spending and hour with a beautiful woman catering exclusively to your physical pleasure, ending with a climax, versus fapping.

There's no comparison.

I'm told.

[–]WesternhagenWinner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've had handjobs before, and I always felt like I could have done a better job myself. But those were amateurs, and I wondered if a professional could do better.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

STFU, own it and ......... DO IT AGAIN

[–]JudgeDoom694 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Allow the experience to reduce your Oneitis for your woman.

By internalizing that there are plenty of other options in the world, you'll increase your confidence and become less needy.

And keep your mouth shut about it.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lol paying for a happy ending doesn't mean you have options.

I guess unless you mean prostitutes are an option?

[–]JudgeDoom692 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

The idea that your woman has the only available pussy in the world leads to neediness. And neediness is the #1 killer of attraction.

Getting some strange, whether it is paid for or not, will reduce that neediness.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Guys aren't needy because they want pussy. They're needy because they want validation.

Paying for sex doesn't give a man validation.

I guess unless she's very good at her job and can convince the guy that he's REALLY not like the rest and she loves him.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Every man has to decide his own moral code.

For me, that would be off the table. If my wife got fingered by some stranger, that would be divorce. So I owe it to her to be as loyal as I expect her to be.

Only you can decide your moral code. It sounds like this doesn't align with your morals, so take it as a learning experience and move on.

And, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, DO NOT TELL HER!!! This goes to the grave with you!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Solid.

[–]jerrymcguiver0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Depends on if the massager was male. They can deliver a deeper massage.

[–]Kpwn88-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh no, the sky is falling!

[–]SteveStJohn-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also, delete this Reddit account so this doesn’t catch up with in 20 years.

[–]BobbyPeru-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should probably get another happy ending and see if that makes you feel more alpha



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