She knows something’s up

simbarlion · 2018-10-24T02:54:27+00:00

She leaves for one weekend, you apply dread and when you pick her up at the end of the weekend she notices you are a changed man and is begging for you to come to bed? Please teach me your ways.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-10-24T02:33:06+00:00

There is nothing up. You’re just not being a total faggot like usual. Keep your mouth shut and lift heavier shit and you’ll do alright.

red-sfpplus · 2018-10-24T02:21:55+00:00

She’s showing me more affection, and begging me to come to bed.

So STFU and go to bed faggot. And keep your fucking mouth shut moving forward.

I’ve told her that I’ve just started focusing more on me and that includes gym time and focusing more on my work and passion projects.

Be a broken record. Just say this over and over again. Say it with a smile and move in for a kiss.

How fucking complicated do you need to make it?

simbarlion · 2018-10-24T04:24:14+00:00

good work.

It is common to have some quick results, the hard work proving you really are different follows. All you have done is presented yourself as a slightly less unnattractive husband. She is having a hypergamous mental orgasm over your new you-ness

To answer your question sensibly, just say without being cagey that you've been busy. Keep it super open. I would not even mention the gym or anything. The hamster runs its best with little to no food. You have a lot of shit to do etc.

There is literally no way through this except to play the long game. Any 'short game' has a negative impact on the long game, most of the time

Sepean · 2018-10-24T05:18:51+00:00

What do I do?

Keep on doing what you’re doing, except stop worrying what your wife thinks.

What do I say

Nothing, or AA.

SorcererKing · 2018-10-25T16:55:30+00:00

Just for follow-up reading, here's how to operationalize all this to your advantage.

Aechzen · 2018-10-24T13:15:04+00:00

You didn't say anything about your lifting, bro.

That's the part of Fight Club you can talk about with your wife.

Hit the gym, and talk about your next workout. If she goes along and gets hot too, bonus.

BobbyPeru · 2018-10-24T04:51:02+00:00

She says I’m acting different and she doesn’t know what’s changed about me but that I’m different. I’ve told her that I’ve just started focusing more on me and that includes gym time and focusing more on my work and passion projects

RP101 here, read your basics. WISIFG tells us we do not ow an explanation. STFU. Use A&A or AM

Aechzen · 2018-10-24T12:44:23+00:00

anyone else have experience accidentally divulging the secret?

Yeah, I left MRP subreddit open on my phone when I first discovered it, back when I didn't understand the potential consequences at all. She saw it via snooping, called me out on it next morning, and ranted a bit about it's toxicity. I just played dumb and said something to the effect of "oh that's interesting, I didn't see it that way. But I'll read whatever I like thanks" and left it at that.

What's hilarious is how supportive she is about RP concepts in conversation. Give it a label though and it's "bad".

TLDR: chicks like sausage, but they don't want to know how it is made.

UEMcGill · 2018-10-24T13:29:30+00:00

Embrace the mindset of not giving a fuck.

It bothers you that she's asking questions not because they make you uncomfortable, but because you want to please her. You don't want her mad at you.

Read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty.

Her feelings are hers, yours are yours and only you can judge your actions.

RedPillCoach · 2018-10-26T02:41:50+00:00

Some guys need to take it to the edge of divorce before the wife even notices anything is happening.

Some guys read a post and a light clicks on and the wife is suddenly worried sick.

I’m acting different and she doesn’t know what’s changed about me but that I’m different.

This calls for Amused Mastery. She can smell her little Beta Boy slipping away from her power. Have fun with it.

ChokingDownRP · 2018-10-26T03:19:32+00:00

My guess is that she fucked another guy when she went away for the weekend. Her inviting you to bed is her version of hysterical bonding. I'm kidding, but you never fucking know. Just keep working on you FOR YOU and the rest will work out fine.

friendandadvisor · 2018-10-29T02:05:49+00:00

However, she keeps persisting. What do I do? What do I say? I know I can’t take back that mistake. Anyone else have any experience with accidentally divulging the secret?

Well, the thing to do is to tell her everything, or else, she'll just keep on persisting.

That, or, just stop being a faggot.

If she asks what 'tests' your doing, tell her 'gynecological', grab her and fuck her silly.

Redpillbrigade17 · 2018-10-24T09:02:57+00:00

“Babe, you know I’ve been thinking, and had an epiphany. It hit me like a ton of bricks that an amazing woman like you deserves nothing but the very best version of me. Now scooch over here and give me a kiss. Those luscious lips look so delicious from here. You sexy little devil you.”

Title	She knows something’s up
Author	cognitopito
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	24 October 2018 02:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/203862
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9qvlxk/she_knows_somethings_up/