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She knows something’s up

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October 24, 2018
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About 1 week ago I fell on a blog post from married man sex life. It talked about how the person who cared less had more power in the relationship and I realized that my wife had taken the dominant role as I begged and pleaded for sex. We have sex pretty frequently, but the quality has been lackluster, so I tried to talk to her about it. We ended up fighting, and went to bed frustrated. The next day she left for a weekend at home to visit her family that had been scheduled for months. During that break I read more and more and realized I had broken one of the major rules. I began implementing the stages of dread, and since I picked her up last night I’ve seen incredible success. She’s showing me more affection, and begging me to come to bed. However, she has asked me what theories I’m up to now, What tests am I running, etc. I’ve told her that I’ve just started focusing more on me and that includes gym time and focusing more on my work and passion projects. However, she keeps persisting. What do I do? What do I say? I know I can’t take back that mistake. Anyone else have any experience with accidentally divulging the secret?


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Title She knows something’s up
Author cognitopito
Upvotes 7
Comments 24
Date 24 October 2018 02:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/203862
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9qvlxk/she_knows_somethings_up/
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[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (5 children) | Copy

She leaves for one weekend, you apply dread and when you pick her up at the end of the weekend she notices you are a changed man and is begging for you to come to bed? Please teach me your ways.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

I think he is a subscriber of the fraternity of excellence.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Shit sign me up

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

$40 bucks a month!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Small price to pay to get my wife to fuck me

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This guy took the Red Pill. That is what the wife is seeing. She knows he is on to her now. Some guys accept this readily. Some take years of struggle. Most never make it and turn into Cyphers.

It wasn't the "Dread" it was the resolution and determination. It was the energy change and she is just figuring out the best way to exploit it.

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is nothing up. You’re just not being a total faggot like usual. Keep your mouth shut and lift heavier shit and you’ll do alright.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s showing me more affection, and begging me to come to bed.

So STFU and go to bed faggot. And keep your fucking mouth shut moving forward.

I’ve told her that I’ve just started focusing more on me and that includes gym time and focusing more on my work and passion projects.

Be a broken record. Just say this over and over again. Say it with a smile and move in for a kiss.

How fucking complicated do you need to make it?

[–]simbarlionRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

good work.

It is common to have some quick results, the hard work proving you really are different follows. All you have done is presented yourself as a slightly less unnattractive husband. She is having a hypergamous mental orgasm over your new you-ness

To answer your question sensibly, just say without being cagey that you've been busy. Keep it super open. I would not even mention the gym or anything. The hamster runs its best with little to no food. You have a lot of shit to do etc.

There is literally no way through this except to play the long game. Any 'short game' has a negative impact on the long game, most of the time

[–]SepeanRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do I do?

Keep on doing what you’re doing, except stop worrying what your wife thinks.

What do I say

Nothing, or AA.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Just for follow-up reading, here's how to operationalize all this to your advantage.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Such good stuff, and you just gave it away, for free. Seems altruistic.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

As I've said before, living in a world where more guys are unplugged benefits me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

more guys are unplugged benefits me.

Agree. Just poking the bear.

[–]Aechzen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You didn't say anything about your lifting, bro.

That's the part of Fight Club you can talk about with your wife.

Hit the gym, and talk about your next workout. If she goes along and gets hot too, bonus.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She says I’m acting different and she doesn’t know what’s changed about me but that I’m different. I’ve told her that I’ve just started focusing more on me and that includes gym time and focusing more on my work and passion projects

RP101 here, read your basics. WISIFG tells us we do not ow an explanation. STFU. Use A&A or AM

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

anyone else have experience accidentally divulging the secret?

Yeah, I left MRP subreddit open on my phone when I first discovered it, back when I didn't understand the potential consequences at all. She saw it via snooping, called me out on it next morning, and ranted a bit about it's toxicity. I just played dumb and said something to the effect of "oh that's interesting, I didn't see it that way. But I'll read whatever I like thanks" and left it at that.

What's hilarious is how supportive she is about RP concepts in conversation. Give it a label though and it's "bad".

TLDR: chicks like sausage, but they don't want to know how it is made.

[–]Aechzen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

change your phone password, and set an auto-lock countdown so you can't leave it open for more than a minute or two in the future.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Embrace the mindset of not giving a fuck.

It bothers you that she's asking questions not because they make you uncomfortable, but because you want to please her. You don't want her mad at you.

Read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty.

Her feelings are hers, yours are yours and only you can judge your actions.

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some guys need to take it to the edge of divorce before the wife even notices anything is happening.

Some guys read a post and a light clicks on and the wife is suddenly worried sick.

I’m acting different and she doesn’t know what’s changed about me but that I’m different.

This calls for Amused Mastery. She can smell her little Beta Boy slipping away from her power. Have fun with it.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My guess is that she fucked another guy when she went away for the weekend. Her inviting you to bed is her version of hysterical bonding. I'm kidding, but you never fucking know. Just keep working on you FOR YOU and the rest will work out fine.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

However, she keeps persisting. What do I do? What do I say? I know I can’t take back that mistake. Anyone else have any experience with accidentally divulging the secret?

Well, the thing to do is to tell her everything, or else, she'll just keep on persisting.

That, or, just stop being a faggot.

If she asks what 'tests' your doing, tell her 'gynecological', grab her and fuck her silly.

[–]Redpillbrigade170 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

“Babe, you know I’ve been thinking, and had an epiphany. It hit me like a ton of bricks that an amazing woman like you deserves nothing but the very best version of me. Now scooch over here and give me a kiss. Those luscious lips look so delicious from here. You sexy little devil you.”

[–]BarracudaRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Too many words



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