Well, I have a main event kicking off. It wasn't what I wanted. We had been working on our marriage over the past 12 months. We went to marriage counselling and while temporarily successful in the long run it didn't matter.
Ultimately, she had left emotionally and was struggling with the a number of things.
I've been reading the sidebar, lifting and focussing on working on myself. The quality of our sex improved a lot as I was applying the things from the sidebar. But in the end it didn't work.
I'm actually relieved. I gave it my everything and it wasn't enough. She had left emotionally and sexually and but not physically. In the end she said that she didn't love me, she didn't want what I wanted, she couldn't give me what I wanted and that the person who she was when we married was dead and by extension the marriage vows we made
So it's onwards and upwards. I'm going get divorce raped but that's OK. I have a pretty investment strategy and I'll recover quickly
The issue is my 2 boys. I know I'll be fine. I can deal with a lot. The MRP and Red Pill forums have been awesome.
The question for the gentlemen on this forum who have had a main event, what things helped the most in moving on and recovery. Also, what things will minimise the impact on the kids.
My experiences tells me that I'm going to be fine. But my biggest concern is my 2 brave little men.