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Wife's old sex photos

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September 3, 2018

30 y.o. 20% bf. mrp beginner

I've been backing up our hard drives, and my wife specifically asks to back up one of her old drives. I do, and as I get curious, I discover a lot of old photos of her having sex with various men from her past. I'm sure she's aware that those photos are there.

What's the most appropriate reaction? Say something? Do the backup? Delete those photos? Trying to maintain my frame, but those photos sure messed with my mind.

EDIT: Thanks everyone, decided to STFU and go lift. Worked well.

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Title Wife's old sex photos
Author Western_Engineering
Upvotes 16
Comments 33
Date 03 September 2018 03:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204058
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9cmiz0/wifes_old_sex_photos/
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[–][deleted] 57 points58 points  (3 children) | Copy

Print out the photos and tape them to a wall when you workout.

[–]FoxShitNasty8329 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy

Can I put them on the wall where I work out?

[–]IRunYourRiver9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

And cover up all those pictures of Leonardo DiCaprio? What's gotten into you?

[–]FoxShitNasty836 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair point

[–]Senor_Martillo39 points40 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well, please delete the ones with me in them. I don’t need the whole internet to know I got peed on by a chubby ginger in Mickey Mouse ears.

[–]The_LitzRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Disturbingly specific....

[–]IRunYourRiver3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Those ones were really disturbing. Brain bleach please!

[–]RedPillCoach8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good Lord! Another saving the best scenario. It took me years to get over the last one and I still require monthly radiation treatments.

Please tell me she lets you take pics and does not limit your menu. If so, there is hope for the relationship. If not and she is playing the titilate and punish game, then it is much harder. You still have time to refuse to tolerate her games any more but the amount this would piss off most men would be fatal.

Tldr: if she is giving u her best and equal to what she recorded with the other men then sack up and quit whining. You didn't marry a virgin and where did you think she learned to smash anyway?

However, if she is not then it is time to use your power to force the issue or to end this fraud.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would not look for advice, generally, from the retards here. Theirs will likely be some version of the following:

  • She's a whore.
  • Only virgins are pure.
  • Your wife was not allowed to have had sex with any other men, ever, before you.

At the same time, I can't imagine what I've stored on my own hard drive over the years. Christ, it likely has every document I've ever used and every photo I've ever taken. I'm fairly confident it doesn't have photos of me having sex with scores of men, though, so I suppose there's that.

I do recall searching our shared hard drives for that killer video of our son taking his first footsteps. Shit. Never found it.

Why are you so worried about this prior sex thing?

Are there, like, thousands of photos? Or just hundreds? Or tens?

Or, say, seven?

Are you worried that she was an escort or a porn star or a nymphomaniac?

... Or, god forbid, that she may have liked someone other than you? And even, perhaps, touched his stuff? Maybe even licked it?

Mother of god, maybe even inserted his penis in her sacred vagina?


Are you so caught up in the impossible reality that she - like you and me - might actually enjoy sex... gasp... even before ever having sex with you?

Sheesh, god forbid. She must only have eyes for you, right? And her breasts? Yours. Her vagina? Yours. Everything else, including that part of her brain focused on attraction? Yours.

I diverge from many of the pussies here on this subject.

Who cares about prior men. I suppose the bible, so if you're reading that often, well, good luck.

As far as I'm concerned, more power to her.

What's the fucking point of treating sex like some weirdass alqua-eda (spelling) bomb-provoking behavior?!

After all:

  • It's fun.
  • It's healthy.
  • It feels good.

And just a reminder:

  • She was allowed to have fun before you.
  • If you're lucky she will continue to have fun while with you.

And another important reminder:

  • She'll just end up having fun after you, should that ever be the case.

So I would encourage you to stop fucking worrying about your wife's past sexual behavior, regardless of what (1) a book has to say, (2) dumbass anonymous retards have to say, and (3) your own insecurity encourages you to say.


[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Neo, sooner or later you're going to realize just as I did that there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red26 points27 points  (6 children) | Copy

How many various men? Just 1:1? Any facials? Anal? ATM shots?

Any cool positions you can learn from? Any pics of her pegging those other men, or is it just you she does that to?

Please, tell us how big of a whore your wife is.

[–]drty_prRed Beret21 points22 points  (5 children) | Copy

I'll bet she fucks him better than all those guys. No doubt a chick who wants her husband to preserve photos of her sexual past saved her best for him.

[–]askmeanything29 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

saved her best

OP, this a reference to one of Rollo's all time best essays:


[–]drty_prRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I was making a joke. You do realize OP is a BP troll right?

[–]askmeanything23 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

sure, why not use the troll to get others to read Rollo

[–]CoachDad90 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Dang Rollo. Now I want to look at my wife's old college laptop.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

THAT, would most likely NOT be a good idea, but it could be a great test of your frame...

[–]JudgeDoom6919 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your wife has done nothing wrong. The old photos are from before you were together.

Use this as a reminder of the slut that dwells within your wife (all wives), and motivation to continually improve your SMV. The next time you want to skip the gym, remember what she is fully capable of doing with Chad when you slip up.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s not yours, just your turn.

Don’t go searching through the garbage or you’ll find trash. Let it go.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Two questions:

1) How satisfied are you with YOUR sex life?

2) If there were photos of YOU and her on the hard drive, which ones would she be thinking about the most?

You’re new to MRP.

You have a LOT to learn, and even more WORK to do.

Work your way up the levels of dread.

In the meantime, you can stir that pot of shit if you want, but I’ll bet you’re not ready to deal with the smell.

So STFU, and...


[–]jahesus5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wants to keep those photos. She didnt hide them, she handed you the drive, and asked you to back up the contents, a manual process. Thus she wanted you to see them, to see how you reacted. Its a shit test.

A) soldier on b) lose the drive c) say nothing d) hit the gym E) NEXT

[–]DanceMonkeeDanceRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Post the pics and we'll tell you what to do.

[–]light-----------dark6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What is your initial reaction?

As someone who is new to MRP, you should do the opposite of what your initial reaction suggests you should do.

Then go lift.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Could you be arsed to give your rationale to this before asking for handouts?

[–]screechhaterRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Did you ever think you special snowflake wants to be jack hammered ?

Face fucked ?

Anal ?

Seriously, do some deep thinking as to why she would place this shit in plain sight.

[–]IRunYourRiver4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I assume these are from before you were married? Endless playful banter could come out of this if you play your cards right. Personally, I'd never be able to pull it off. Maybe you can.

[–]IRunYourRiver9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay, giving this some more thought. You are the proverbial kid who found a stick of dynamite in an abandoned lot. It's tempting to think of all the cool shit you could do with it. But more likely you'll end the day with three fewer fingers than you started it with. Take this as an AWALT moment and use it to become Red pill.

[–]Whiteliesmatter11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn’t worry about it. It is her business really. Of course she had sex before you. Do you think you are special? Of course she kept the photos. Probably forgot about them too. I am positive I have old photos of my own around and I can’t remember where. No biggie. Move on with your life.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Is your wife good a using a selfie stick?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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