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It gets better and better and better... or at least it can.

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It gets better and better and better... Or at least it can.

You need to believe in yourself. And be disciplined. And pay attention. And learn. And conquer your fears.

But especially, be disciplined.

Not like fake, poser assholes, but like real men.

You've stumbled upon this steaming pile of shit/nirvana (depending on your perspective) - aka AskMRP - because you are (choose one of the following): (1) scared, (2) weak, (3) lame, (4) insecure, (5) pathetic, (6) retarded, (7) gay, or (8) actually a real, live gay unicorn... or maybe (9) you've lost your way and you don't know why, or (10) you were once strong and are now failing, or (11) you never learned this shit from your father or, or (12) well, you get my point...

But it's okay.

It can - and if you are disciplined - it will get better.

How do I know?

Because I was you. Once.

Like you, I was lost.

Perhaps like you, I was forgotten.

Even worse, I was really sick and getting sicker.

And I stayed and I learned and I grew and I healed and I learned some more, from some smart mother-fuckers like stoney, bogey, and sk.

And I prevailed.

You know I was actually dying, faggot?

No. Seriously. I was dying.

Fuck my girlfriend. Fuck my wife. Fuck everything.

I had some serious god damn problems.

And then I busted my ass and worked hard and then I worked harder.

And I prevailed.

And you know what?

Today is even better:

  • What was once one is now two.

  • What what once no is now yes.

  • What was once improbable is now probable.

  • What was once impossible is now reality.

Just keep trying, bro.


p.s. It could be so much worse. You can get through this. Don't give up on yourself. Don't give up on your manhood. Maybe it's lost, maybe it's forgotten, but it's there to find.

Find it.

p.p.s. If you don't like my post, go fuck yourself.


Oh, wait, this is about sex, right?

Okay, here's an update:

  • 4-pack is now a 6-pack.
  • Oddly, muscle mass has dropped a bit.
  • Sex now happens twice-a-day on weekends, and a few times during the week.
  • Note to reader: wake up early, dumbass, morning sex is key.
  • Anger doesn't work. Try to connect. I connected and it made all the difference.
  • Don't try to be so tough. Chances are you're not. Just be you. But don't be a fake-tough-guy-who's-actually-a-pussy.

Post Information
Title It gets better and better and better... or at least it can.
Author johneyapocalypse
Upvotes 24
Comments 17
Date 24 August 2018 11:59 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204080
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9a2hiy/it_gets_better_and_better_and_better_or_at_least/
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[–]PersaeusRed Beret8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wake up early and fuck

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

This dude fucks.

Great job man.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

I agree with pretty much everything you said, but would you mind expanding on this a bit:

Anger doesn't work. Try to connect. I connected and it made all the difference.

I agree anger doesn’t work for many reasons- loss of frame a top reason. But, I’m intrigued by your “connect” addition. Do you have examples or more specific info on how to connect?

[–]weakandsensitive5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

When you're angry, you aren't smiling.

When you aren't smiling, you aren't engaged.

When you aren't engaged, you aren't living.

You've got one life. Live it. Love it.

Just like everything else, anger is a tool. It can be useful - maybe it can't. Maybe when your skill set sharpens, that particular tool is no longer needed.

Connecting isn't a matter of how, but rather choosing to do so. The same people who ask "How do you stop and smell the roses?" are the same one's who never take the time to do so.

[–]calmwater15 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just reread Models and the book goes into the why and how of making connections with a woman, anyone really. The high level summary is know yourself (likes, dislikes, etc), take a risk and openly express yourself, without neediness or fear, but with authenticity, vulnerability, and emotion. You open yourself up to more rejection but people self select out and you end up with better relationships. The book goes into how to be more interesting, body language, conversation skills, sub-communication etc.. Examples in the book as well. It might be worth a read or reread. I learned a lot on my reread of it.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Connecting is super important. Red pill coach has a good bit of information on this, I think he recommends talking to, more like listening to, your partner for 20 minutes or so each day. When I read that it resonated with me and I have since been doing so.

What's more, we went to visit my wife's family in her country. They are known for how passionate they are there, and I watched my brother-in-law and how he interacted with his spouse, and it was just that: passion.

Of course that passion means highs and lows, and there were quite a few lows that I witnessed, but I was just watching the day-to-day and how much touching and kissing and things like that.

Talking, listening, touching, engaging.

Hell I used to come home and essentially ignore her. Then I'd go to sleep and do the same, far, far on the other side of the bed. How sterile. How cold. How lifeless.

I'm still never vulnerable nor will I ever be... To anyone but that's okay with me.

So:

  • listen.
  • talk.
  • engage.
  • touch.
  • interact.
  • don't be cold and sterile.
  • be passionate.

Treat her as your partner, not your enemy.

Be a team. When the team is clicking the connection happens.

Maybe he can add more:

https://old.reddit.com/user/RedPillCoach

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, I’m familiar with pook’s description. I was more curious as to what OP’s description was...

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The guys who get it, get it.

The guys who don’t never will.

Congrats!

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don't be a Steve. Be a Johnny.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was rough.

[–]justpickanyusernameRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell yeah!

[–]ParaXilo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck yeah.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

This post made me hard.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're so jacked-up a ham sandwich makes you hard, lol.

What dumbass downvoted you?

Hey fucker who down voted: red's jacked. No homo.

Okay, well maybe a little, like 37.4% homo.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just went back and read all 5 of your posts (excluding the one to me) and put together with this one, that’s some real inspirational shit.

You know the shit I whine about. I feel like a camel’s fart in the desert compared to what you’ve gone through.

Thanks for hanging in there and being a positive part of this community! (0% homo)

I don’t often drink so I’m not good at it, but I like being a cheap drunk.

Rock on, brother.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good thing to stumble across for those of us not seeing results yet after upping the effort. Thank you.



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