I went from telling her to have lingerie on for me when I got home (she did and had a good time ) to 4 days later having a shit test about blowjobs. (It’s all you want blah blah song and dance we all know). She was giving way too much LMR so I told her to stop talking and get on her knees. Seemed like a reasonable request to me.
In my head when she makes up this bs all I can think of is don’t negotiate and don’t argue. I sit there autistic afraid to DEER.
How does shit change so quickly? Is the anti slut up from the good time we had earlier in the week? Went caveman but I failed this go round. Its hard not to defend when she really exaggerates the blowjob frequency. Like come on, chapstick stock would be through the roof If you were giving them as much as you think you are.
EDIT: taking a step back this of course is a matter of frame. When I mentioned LMRs I’m talking over 10 minutes worth. I let myself get drawn into her frame and became the orbiter waiting for some sex which of course no shit she’s not going to let me call any shots.
TAKEAWAY: set the boundary. 1-2 LMRs no longer than a minute or two based on circumstance. Then I bounce onto the next thing maybe she’ll get fucked another time.