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Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family.

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August 15, 2018
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I've been busy on myself, but after reading a recent post about once the kids are older she will lose the Dopamine triggers Facebook gives her. The post talks about keeping her busy and entertained by having her tag along with me, etc.

Let's start with the basics, I suck at leading; I'm working on it:

I ask her to do stuff around the house, get her involved with cooking (I enjoy, and do, the majority of the cooking) as well as the kids.

Beyond that I'm not sure what else to do that wouldn't be too bluepill, she does what she wants outside that - I don't question, and if she asks for permission, I usually answer with a smile and, "I don't care what you do so long as I don't have to bail you out of jail."

I don't have many hobbies that interest me other than lifting(which I do in my basement gym). I try and get her/the kids out but getting home by 6 and the kids need to be in bed by 8:30ish (2 and 3 year old). Doesn't leave much room to lead the "family unit" during the week - we go for a walk after dinner usually.

Any suggestions would be appreciated.


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Title Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family.
Author MRP_Padawan
Upvotes 7
Comments 22
Date 15 August 2018 11:23 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204101
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/97n4lc/questions_about_keeping_mystery_keeping_her_busy/
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[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine10 points11 points  (7 children) | Copy

Not sure what you are really asking here...

“Once the kids are older she will lose the Dopamine triggers Facebook gives her”

Fuck no. She’ll never lose the dopamine hits and feelz she gets from social media. She’ll seek those out even more if you don’t start providing some feelz / tinglesTm . Probably seek out Chad too.

“The post talks about keeping her busy and entertained”

Why do you feelz like you need to entertain her? Are you funny? Like a clown.. funny?

“and if she asks for permission, I usually answer with a smile and, "I don't care what you do so long as I don't have to bail you out of jail."”

Looks like she’s looking for leadership right here and your response is weak as fuck. Tell her “no” occasionally. Get mad at her sometimes.... you’re too nice faggot. Tell her she deserves a spanking for thinking she can go to the mall a 3rd time this week.. she wants to feelz, good and bad feelz, just not boring feelz. That’s the worst kind of feelz. That’s what makes them act out from time to time when you don’t generate any feelz - good or bad. If she doesn’t get them from, you she’ll get them from somewhere else.

Look faggot, the work week/school week is challenging for MRPs, but only for those who don’t know how to game their wives.

You need to be gaming her. If you’re not gaming, you’re not fucking. Text game through the day, kino and Drive bys at home. Tell her stories of shit that happened (or didn’t happen) at work or during the day, etc. let that hamster fill in the rest of the story. Need to make it spin faggot. On that wheel. Get some Dread going. Talk about that new chick you interviewed for the position at work, etc..

You can lead the family by making plans with her for upcoming weekend. When kids go to bed, pour some glasses of wine and Tell her the plans, don’t ask. Game her some more.

Watch a movie together, get her to massage you or you give her one. Feelz all over the ass when you do. Tell her to go make popcorn, tell her to come here, pick her up on the kitchen counter and grind that pussy, tell her what you will do to her later on, tell her to wear those shiny pink panties you like for later, tease her, make fun of her, before you go down to the basement to work out, throw a pair of her sexy panties at her and say “have these on when I come back up”... or “meet me down here in 15 minutes” etc. think McFly, think.

Do all that shit and she’ll feelz like you are “leading..” - from the tinglestm you generate.
Give her hits of positive masculine energy... it’s what makes time travel possible pussy wet. None of this “anything is fine with me” and evening walks bullshit...

Damn..You sound boring.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're being a giver tonight.

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Gold mine. To be more specific I'm having issues moreso coming up with these ideas. Especially finding shit to do that the kids will enjoy.

[–]lololasaurus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why you have a problem.

Because if you remembered what fun is, the way a 3 year old does (maybe a 5 year old, you want to be cool for your kids!), you would be fun. And then she would not be bored.

You can't scroll Facebook on your phone when the kids and your husband throw you a pool noodle and yell DEFEND YOURSELF before everyone playfully beats each other with the pool noodles.

You can't scroll Facebook while running after your husband after he runs in and yells tag, you're it, RUN kids!!

Do you see now?

I have 7 kids. I work full time. I deliver kids to school, pick them up, do doctor appointments, clean my house, fix my vehicles, run a side business, my wife is only recently starting to check back in after I swallowed the pill last November. And you don't have freaking time to lead your family?

Everything you do is leading, but where? To Nowhereville? Or to Awesometon?

So lead toward something awesome. Something fun. Something that gets the feels going. You seem to have no mission, fella, and you're no fun.

But you can fix those things.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

they’re 3 and 2 years old.... throw some fucking crayons and sheet of blank paper on the ground and go fuck your wife in the back room...

Troll.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Throw some fucking crayons and sheets of blank paper knives and lighter fluid on the ground and go fuck your wife in the back room...

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Also... I am boring and I know it... Thus why I'm here. It doesn't come innately for me.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Seek and you shall find ====>.

[–]rocknrollchuck1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is great man!

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lazy fuck...

Use the search tool ===> and do your due diligence before posting basic questions.

[–]fuckmrpRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Leading is not doing things. It’s everything you do. Reread that last paragraph.

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Good insight. I guess I'm not emitting leadership properties then... Any other deep extrapolations that might help?

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The only “deep extrapolation” she needs is your P in her V faggot. Shut the fuck up.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

[–]helaughsinhidden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Forget the weights in the basement. Go to the GYM. She can't miss you if you're never gone. Plus, there's other women there to boost your ego if you look good and give competition to her. She might even start going too. What woman can't use a little cardio?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Try going to an outside gym. Get away from the house. Be unavailable for a few hours.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What is really strange about posts like this is that I can’t keep my wife away from me. When I see I posts like this that talk about the wife going off and doing her own thing it seriously puzzles me.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Suggestion: don't be so fucking boring.

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great suggestion! I'll put it right next to my emotional support calendar.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Does she fuck?

[–]MRP_Padawan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, most of the time (didn't used too, red pill has helped thus far). Unfortunately, her self esteem and issues gave her way more overweight than I'd like. This my questioning.



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