36, 6'4" 220. Wife 37. 2 kids.
MRP almost a year. Lifting since then and reading sidebar.
Read: mmsl. Nmmng. Rational male. Preventive medicine. WSM. 48 laws.
Lift: bp: 265. Ohp: 155. Dl: 315. Squat: 275.
I want to start off by saying that this shit works. I may still be a pussy and not have frame a lot of the time. But when I really think about it. This shit is for real. Wife has reacted amazingly. There were tons of shit tests in the beginning. But I simply did not give a fuck. I wanted change. So I would hold fast and stand up for myself. Now she shit tests, but it doesn't last near as long. It's almost like an actual small test of me being a man. Then she thinks yep you're a man. Most of the time now I just come up behind her, pull her hair and tell her I'm planning to fuck her later. That seems to help.
I came here for this. I'm basically a noob. So I suck at gaming other women, but I'm giving it a shot. I went to a work conference a few weeks ago and naturally there was drinking at the bar in the evenings. Nevertheless, I sort of hit it off with this one woman the first night. 36 yo married mom, with a big rock on her finger. And she would just always show back up night after night. I gave her the feelz. In the end I think I got played, because she got all the feelz and I never got the pussy. However, I now believe wholeheartedly that hypergamy is alive and real. In that during our late night walks she would be kissing me telling me how she "loves her husband" and how "he takes care of me." Just to prove it to myself, I asked her what she likes in a man. She says, "eyes...arms". Lift fellows. They are all the fucking same.
My opinion is I just showed way too much beta and talked too much. That is my old way of gaming. And ultimately she saw me as mr nice-husband-dad-guy who wasn't really going to fuck her anyway. Therefore she felt comfortable to go on walks but would not end up in my room. Despite the fact that she told me I made her "so wet she's swimming." It's amazing how shallow they are. I have good shoulders and she would not stop touching them. And all those years I thought women loved me for being such and good dude and for being myself. If anything it was the being myself that made her decide not to fuck me. If I was just some nameless chad, she probably would have climbed on. Anyway. Tell me I'm a pussy and give me some advice how to close something like this.