He takes care of me....

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August 12, 2018

36, 6'4" 220. Wife 37. 2 kids.

MRP almost a year. Lifting since then and reading sidebar.

Read: mmsl. Nmmng. Rational male. Preventive medicine. WSM. 48 laws.

Lift: bp: 265. Ohp: 155. Dl: 315. Squat: 275.

I want to start off by saying that this shit works. I may still be a pussy and not have frame a lot of the time. But when I really think about it. This shit is for real. Wife has reacted amazingly. There were tons of shit tests in the beginning. But I simply did not give a fuck. I wanted change. So I would hold fast and stand up for myself. Now she shit tests, but it doesn't last near as long. It's almost like an actual small test of me being a man. Then she thinks yep you're a man. Most of the time now I just come up behind her, pull her hair and tell her I'm planning to fuck her later. That seems to help.

I came here for this. I'm basically a noob. So I suck at gaming other women, but I'm giving it a shot. I went to a work conference a few weeks ago and naturally there was drinking at the bar in the evenings. Nevertheless, I sort of hit it off with this one woman the first night. 36 yo married mom, with a big rock on her finger. And she would just always show back up night after night. I gave her the feelz. In the end I think I got played, because she got all the feelz and I never got the pussy. However, I now believe wholeheartedly that hypergamy is alive and real. In that during our late night walks she would be kissing me telling me how she "loves her husband" and how "he takes care of me." Just to prove it to myself, I asked her what she likes in a man. She says, "eyes...arms". Lift fellows. They are all the fucking same.

My opinion is I just showed way too much beta and talked too much. That is my old way of gaming. And ultimately she saw me as mr nice-husband-dad-guy who wasn't really going to fuck her anyway. Therefore she felt comfortable to go on walks but would not end up in my room. Despite the fact that she told me I made her "so wet she's swimming." It's amazing how shallow they are. I have good shoulders and she would not stop touching them. And all those years I thought women loved me for being such and good dude and for being myself. If anything it was the being myself that made her decide not to fuck me. If I was just some nameless chad, she probably would have climbed on. Anyway. Tell me I'm a pussy and give me some advice how to close something like this.

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Title He takes care of me....
Author tablesturnedagain
Upvotes 9
Comments 20
Date 12 August 2018 07:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204108
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/96rerj/he_takes_care_of_me/
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[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

I never got the pussy.

My opinion is I just showed way too much beta and talked too much.

What was your intention? Did you want to cheat and fuck her? They can tell if you want to genuinely fuck them or not.

Nevertheless you got some good Kino out of her which should help your abundance mentality.

Other than that, your DL and SQ compared to your bench suck balls, stop skipping leg day faggot.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Other than that, your DL and SQ compared to your bench suck balls, stop skipping leg day faggot.

Sometimes the lead is buried

[–]CaptJohnLukeDiscard1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

According to this website, his BP and OHP are average but his DL and SQ are somewhere in the "a rando barslut is probably stronger" range.

[–]FeralRed11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don't have to fuck other women, just be absolutely confident in the fact you could if you wanted to. That's the dread you need.

If you KNOW she's not your only possibility of pussy, she will too.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the moment, you didn't want to close.

Nothing wrong with that.

If knowing you are valuable enough to easily get new pussy is what you want to prove, then job well done. You should take the confidence of knowing you can make other women wet to defuse any butthurt of rejection from your wife. It also will make you realize that the wife is fungible if she's not fucking you.

Abundance is your friend.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have to know your line going in.

That will help you stay in your frame

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

I've had a girl tell me how great her fiance was, while I was balls deep...

Is what it is.

Either way, keep those skills sharp, it's not hard to not fuck a girl, they have ASD, LMR... You can pull the pin at any time.

Enjoy yourself, the chase is where all the fun lies...

This could have made a good MRP field report btw

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Multi-day mini-courtship catch and release is a good FR.

He's right about industry conferences. Lots in common with the people there, conversation starts easily, lots of (sometimes) free booze, hotel rooms already reserved for reasons with plausible deniability, and a set end date.

It's like they are designed for illicit sex.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds a lot like a 6 month ops course in halifax

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I once had a woman ditch her husband at a conference, because she wanted to hang out with someone fun.

"Wait I thought you were here with your husband"

"Yeah, I told him I had a client dinner"

Think there were tingles in that marriage?

[–]tablesturnedagain[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sitting on the hotel patio. She tells me I've got no chance of getting in her pants. She goes to the bathroom. I said fuck it I'm tired and went to bed. I figured it was over and I wasn't just going to sit around all night being her gay friend. What does she do? She finds my roommate (work puts us together) and gets his key and comes to my room. Lays in my bed and chats. I escalate. She straddles kisses me. I go for her shirt and she just can't do it. She's riddled with guilt. She gets up. We talk and she eventually leaves. Next night. She wants to go for a walk. Says she just can't come to my room cause she know I will get her clothes off. We find a secluded spot. She straddles me. Kisses me. Oh. But her husband. Bla. Bla. Bla. Dry humps the shit out of my Dick. I try to roll her over go for the pants and it's a no go. It wasn't for lack of trying. She tells me she's soaked but just can't do it. I say it's cool. I'm not here to force anything. Basically tell her I've got to go to bed and she should come come with me. But again says she just can't.

[–]weakandsensitive8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Op - here's a classic.

Her: "I love my husband."

You: "I love fries."

Her: "What?"

You: "I thought we were talking about things that don't matter right now."


[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

“She tells me I've got no chance of getting in her pants”

Classic Shit test and you failed faggot.

Never listen to what they say. She told you that - but also managed to get a key to your room, kissed you, and dry humped your dick raw....

A little less autistic and she would have been dtf.

Lessons learned..


[–]BostonBrakeJob1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she wants to be Taken. If you're not Liam Neilson, it's cool. Have fun with some catch & release.

[–]tablesturnedagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. Just what I thought. I fucked it up. That's why I'm a noob on ask mrp. And the fact that I know I had reservations about cheating. Whether I told myself I did or not. I can't deny that. lessons learned is right.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the end I think I got played, because she got all the feelz and I never got the pussy.

the only person that played you was you; but you seem to have figured that out. sitting on fences is painful. figure out what you want and execute.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she told you that she was wet for you and you didn't close you're autistic as fuck. If you didn't close because you have reservations about cheating, that's fine, but you didn't say that, you made it sound as if you wanted to fuck and she wouldn't... sounds like you didn't try, or you are oblivious.

[–]tablesturnedagain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You guys are right about something I didn't want to admit to myself. Ultimately, I never wanted to cheat. I wanted to know that I could. I think back about what I should have done or how I should have been more OI at times. But I just let the moments pass and didn't lead her to that. On purpose--now that I look back on it. Abundance mentality is right though. Wife and I were talking the other night about a recently divorced friend who is quite hot. I told her I will add her to the running list in my head of women I can call that night if we end it. Just being confident and knowing you could be knee deep in different pussy tomorrow makes all the difference.

Now, on to the hard stuff. You are right. I am a pussy about leg day. I fucking hate it. Knee (acl) surgery 1.5 years ago and I just fucking hate to squat. No excuses. It's the most important exercise.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Did you use kino? Teasing, Gaming, not hide your dick? Were you escalating at any one point? Should have went for a mini bounce - venue change- good sign if she follows you.

I don’t understand? Were you even trying for the lay? So basically, you sat there talking on and on to her for hours like her gay best friend but now confused why your dick isn’t wet?

Yes, she liked the validation (feelz) you provided.

[–]DeepReindeer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They both got validation. They both needed it, and that's the problem. He shouldn't need it. Oh well - he didn't want to cheat anyway.

Nice suggestions - esp the venue change. Great way to determine dtf without wasting time.

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