OK, so I'm new to MRP but have read NMMNG and working through WISNIFG. I'm guessing the answers here are going to be stfu, sidebar and lift, but thought I'd ask anyway...
My wife (37) is an artist. She's been working hard for a few years, getting better and better but without any commercial success yet. This means she has very little feedback on her work.
We moved to a new city last year and she met a load of people on the local art scene. One of them, a divorced depressive guy (50s) she hit it off with as he really liked her work. She also really likes his work.
Surprise surprise, he's now in love with her. She still wants to see him as he's been really helpful with her work and she likes spending time with him talking about art. He's the first person she's really clicked with about art-related stuff.
I don't know what to do about this. Part of me thinks its her emotional drama and I shouldn't be sucked in. That I should just stfu etc and get on with improving my own life. Part of me worries that I need to set some boundaries here.
Any insight welcomed. Even if it's just stfu, sidebar, lift.