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What is MarriedRedPill, what is askMRP?

by Rian_Stone | July 05, 2018 | askMRP

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Lately I have noticed some off-topic and varying levels of usefulness in the posts between the two subs, and I'm offering some clarification for everyone on the pupose of MRP and askMRP.

Marriedredpill is the space to discuss RP strategies, produce field reports, and provide value to each other from within a committed relationship. It's since grown to encompass a few other properties:

  1. Demographically older, and all the nuances that comes with it
  2. Generally focused more on pragmatism, and less on over arching systems. Getting your own house in order, and not worry so much about society crumbling around you
  3. A much lower tolerance for self pity; our one-victim-puke rule
  4. No fat chicks

When I first started my MAP, there wasn't an askMRP. It's still not universally accepted among the readership. It was a solution to the simple questions How do we filter low quality, un researched, value leeching questions without turning MRP into The Oliver twist forum, always asking for more?. Is there any way to polish those turds into something useful?

So askMRP was created. I'm surprised people post there as much as they do, it's always been I'm too lazy to start, so I need spoonfeeding. the users who respond, mostly do so because teaching a thing is the best way to learn a thing.

So, we are where we are. regression to the mean. Having said that:

  1. Questions end with a question mark. If you post a field report or a navel gazing post onto askMRP, we both know you know it's shitty quality, and think it goes into the shit pile. It doesn't. Your post would have been better in the weekly OWS thread to begin with (that stickied post thats always updated), you're just too lazy to post more than one navel gaze before you Rambo your shit.

  2. If it's a field report, I don't give a shit if it's not up to Caddy McCadderson standards. If it's got some value for another person reading it, post it to MRP, thats the point. If you have a theory that ties together multiple field reports, it goes in MRP. If you're worried about getting grief, don't. I could give a 100% foolproof guide to banging supermodels, and someone would complain that superdupermodels will see right through it. Taking grief with a little good grace is good practice anyways.

  3. OWS posts aren't about what you wish you could do, or what you'll do tomorrow, it's about what you've done, and fleshing out your process. Others chime in to teach what they've learned, and point out the blind spots.

End of the day, if someone reading it can carve a success out of their life with the information therein, it's an MRP post. Don't worry if it's not 10/10, none of us will ever post a magnum opus, so don't worry it's not. If you have a question and can't be arsed to learn, askmrp and hope that someone else needs to refine their understanding of the same thing. OWS is for action, not pontification


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Title What is MarriedRedPill, what is askMRP?
Author Rian_Stone
Upvotes 27
Comments 16
Date 05 July 2018 03:41 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204241
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8wbfsn/what_is_marriedredpill_what_is_askmrp/
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[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

I could give a 100% foolproof guide to banging supermodels

well then hurry the fuck up

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret[S] 32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy

  1. Bring coke

  2. Be hawt

  3. See 1.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

fucking funniest thing i've ever read from you

bravo

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

bows furiously

[–]redpillcad9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

MRP without ability to walk away is just r /relationshit.

TRP with strong desire/need for relationshit is r PUA codependency

Relationships benefit women much more than men. Men need sex, not relarionship.

If a man enters a relationship it should be because the woman is hellbent on making him so happy. He is the prize and acts accordingly

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

I thought OYS was a place of accountability to really reflect on the week and put words to your failures?

Others reading might not even realize they have those same failures too.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Failures are born out of action. "Owning" by the very basis of being a verb, also implies action.

You shouldn't give a shit about others when holding yourself accountable. But, as u/weakandsensitive has rightly pointed out, MRP is gay, and will always be gay. Faggots like us invariably have relationship and other tendencies in common to make us useless faggots in the first place. Seeing other queers fuck up and get advice from reforming butt pirates allows for personal growth.

Action, with after the fact critique, is the only way to develop data points.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you for coming out. Ladies and gents, our first gay MRP.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're welcome. I needed to enhance my white male privilege and everybody loves a parade.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I could give a 100% foolproof guide to banging supermodels

You have a PM

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I actually do.

Is that you on Twitter?

[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Am not on twitter. Was joking but...ahem.... I would read it.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, directed him to the sidebar... He's a rule zero dad, minus the edge

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think you forgot the component where Married RedPill is a man that recognizes he wants to be with (married, exclusive, dating) one woman and recognizes there are compromises to true TRP method.

Note: not too many compromises.



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