I always feel the need to explain myself. It’s like I can’t handle when someone thinks something that is completely untrue or completely misunderstanding the point.
If my wife says something that doesn’t make any sense to a decision I made I almost feel the need to correct her train of thought. Or DEER.
“That doesn’t even make any sense.. and away I go”
same with a post over in TRP. An outside sub had posted about “red pillers” and how awful they were and how the women escaped a prison when it came to their relationships with ex boyfriends who followed the red pill.
And it immediately made me want to ask them. How your ex improving himself a prison. It’s clear your ex didn’t actually follow........ you get the picture.
It’s a constant need to DEER. I do everything in my life with a purpose so if my wife. Friends. Etc are going to question something I do. Or try to turn it into something it’s not. I hate having them think that way so i try to change it.
How can I stop this?