New to all of this but an urgent situation came up. Long story short 4 weeks ago my wife asked for separation for problems related to us but mostly me. Last week I found she was cheating with a big black lesbian. She's 49 and we've been together 15 years with 3 teenage boys.
We we supposed to go to mediation today to begin to separate things out but she cancelled apparently she lawyered up last week. I already have a lawyer.
We were going to tell the kids about this GS after mediation and I still plan to Friday. Now that she has retained a lawyer and wants to make this messy (she makes more than me and I live in NC. Adultery isn't looked upon kindly here. She likely would have gotten a better deal with mediation). Anyway, is there a way to let the kids know she was unfaithful and that's why this is happening?