Some of you guys are still struggling with your intimate relationships. I have a few tips about the nature of women that may help.
- Women control intimacy, men control commitment.
Remember this the next time you want to "force" a sexual encounter with a woman. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. They share intimacy and have sex when and how they feel like it. And there isn't anything you can do about that, except to be attractive and not be unattractive. Nothing. Zilch. Zippo.
So the next time you are frustrated with your woman's lack of apparent desire (for you) DO NOT try to force the issue. Control what you can, which is your attractiveness and unattractiveness and patiently await her response. It is what it is. You are the decision taker, not the decision maker.
- Women are like cats, men are like dogs.
Personality wise, women are like cats. Most cats won't come when you call them. Cats come when they feel safe and secure around you. They come when they need your affection. They come when YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE TO THEM.
What happens if you put a cat in a collar and try to lead it around like a dog ? Lots of hissing and struggle to do anything but walk with you.
How do you get a cat to sit on your lap ? Ignore it. Be calm. Do your own thing. The cat will approach and jump up on you when it is ready.
Remember this the next time you feel you need to share your RP goals aloud. No need. She'll respond when YOU are attractive to HER.
- Women love and need sex as much or more than men do.
Any man that is in a great relationship knows this because he has experienced it. The key to experiencing this is to be the man that she can open up with. I'm convinced that all women crave great sex and a man to have great sex with. And so they should. As men we need to strive to be the men that women need to have great sex with.
Remember this the next time your SO offers you starfish sex.
- Nothing is a bigger turn off to a woman than an insecure, needy or entitled man.
A woman's desire starts with the feelings the man's behaviour and appearance arouse in her. The next time you are rejected by a woman, check your recent and not so recent history for behaviours displaying insecurity, neediness or entitlement.
Remember this the next time you feel the need to initiate for the 4th time in a day.
- Women are driven by their biology.
Women are driven by their biology and nothing will ever change that. Say all you want about men responding to female visual cues, women are just as visual as men are, if not moreso.
Want proof ? Put up an attractive male Tinder profile that has just pictures with no bio, versus one that has unattractive pictures and a great bio. The feminists and intellectual women will tell you all day long how they are attracted to a man's personality, his charm and charisma, but if you watch their actions, they'll swipe right on the physically attractive man all day long and ignore the great profile.
Women can't and don't outsmart their biology. They are physically attracted to toned stomachs, developed chests, strong backs and chiselled good looks. Consciously or subconsciously they want to mate with attractive men so as to pass these traits on to their offspring. Their bodies respond appropriately and there is nothing they can do about that. You can't negotiate desire, remember ?
Remember this the next time she says she is just not in the mood or has more important things to do. What do you think her body is telling her ?