I posted on here a while ago, but a quick recap:
About 3 months ago I found out my wife of 10 years (together 15 years) has been having an affair. She left me for the other dude. She finally moved out a few weeks ago, currently still have to see her as we have joint custody of my 3 year old son. Divorce settled, but still has to go through the legal channels (I made well, got the house and let off the hook for most alimony, got to love the country I live in....)
Been seeing someone for the past 6 weeks. Solid 6, wants sex all the time, is very caring and constantly wants to do stuff for me. I've been trying to work on myself in the meantime (sidebar, rational male, lots of RSD vids), but between a peak at work and taking care of the kid and everything, its hard to find energy. Have still been working out 3 x a week (1x bjj, 2x lifting), and am trying to quite smoking again (started when I found out about the affair). Probably not sleeping enough either, but eating healthy and am at about 12% bf.
Here is the problem. My sex drive seems to have bottomed out...Even though I have access whenever I want, I just don't feel like it a lot of the time. This is very strange for me (always had a high sex drive). Wanted to go and get t-levels tested in the next couple of weeks to see if that is the problem. Apart from that, I really am at a loss. Any ideas?