I’ll start by saying I been lifting 5 days a week. For a while now. I’m pretty ripped. Been focusing on my shit and still spending time with her. I’m working on shutting up and not participating in verbal intercourses. But this happened just now.
I was at the pool waiting for my buddies to show up. A guy walks by with a dog ( we have the same dog). She ran out to go pet the dog. In the meantime I struck up a convo with these two women by the pool. Nothing serious just small talk. She comes back and sees this. I even try to add her in the conversation so they know she’s with me. I then tell them have a good day.
My friends show up then. I can tell she’s acting all pissed. I ignore it and try to flirt with her. She’s being cold so I tell my boys let’s go get food.
We go get food and she text me this.
“Did you get her number lol” I don’t even have time to answer. Then it’s followed by
“Don’t ever do that shit again, talk to bitches right in from of me. Next time we’re out somewhere I’ll walk up to a group of guys while you’re with me and start talking to them. “
“I didn’t see Z and his boys go up to them an start talking. Be respectful towards me especially if I’m here”
I haven’t responded yet. And I know when they leave she’s going to bring it up again. How do I handle this.
I want to be like “who cares you were talking to another dude I just was having a harmless convo. What I can’t have a convo??” But I know that’s the wrong way to handle it.