Long story short I got divorced five years ago when I discovered my ex wife was having an affair at work and followed that rabbit hole down her social media. Where I discovered that when she had prior told me that she didn't even have a boyfriend in college she didn't mean she was alone. But rather that she enjoyed going out every weekend and getting banged by bar and club randos, including getting gang banged, etc etc, and that she was still chatting with and sending nudes to these guys on Facebook. Sorta my red pill awakening.
Divorce took two years, standard hell filled with lies that I was a bad abusive man (I was a weak nice guy beta), and immediately after the divorce was finalized she sued me again only this time she wanted to move two thousand miles away with full custody. I had given up after watching my entire life savings and life turn to dust and had taken the red pill hard. So I knew my only chance for my goal, being a family man, was in finding a new wife. This was two years ago.
Now today I'm a top man. No longer a fat loser but a top 5% man. With a wife a decade younger than my ex wife, who is in my frame and adores me. She's also pregnant. I follow the married red pill advice with her and it works, amazingly well. I'm happily married.
Two months ago my ex wife called me and told me that she's sorry. An apology that the blue pilled me would have died for, but the red pilled me doesn't care. She told me that our son needs his father, that he's her entire life, and that she got a job here where I live and was moving back. She told me she would negotiate with me and not use the family courts against me. Hilarious, of course, cause I don't think they would be receptive to her suing me to try to give me back partial custody.
I do worry that she will try to get child support redone as my income has risen in these years.
I went to dinner with her a month ago. My new wife, myself, her, and she surprised me with her "long term boyfriend". Who she claimed she has been dating for years, only in an LDR as he lives here where I live not 2000 miles away. They didn't touch and their interactions seemed forced. I'm clearly 3+ points higher smv but I really liked the guy. A nice stable beta, who I don't worry about being around my kid.
Today was that sons sixth birthday. She asked me when she told me she was moving back if I would plan his birthday party. I did, it went very well, and he had am amazing time playing with all his cousins he's never really met before. He's finally out for the night.
During the birthday party, though, I felt a hand caress me from the top of my back down to my ass. I turned thinking my wonderful new post red pill wife would be there. No. It was my ex wife. And she immediately turned and walked away.
Later I brought this up to my wife. She told me she saw it like a laser. And said, with a dread induced smile, that she's not worried (lol) and it just means the ex wife is jealous.
Now my ex wife is quite good looking for her age. But she's almost 40 and my wife is still in her twenties, and better looking. Plus I made this new marriage from a red pilled frame. I harbour no desire to hook up with my ex wife. My desire is that we remain on these good terms and she doesn't start using the family court system against me again. She's fully aware that she could, and she knows that her lies will not only be believed but will work. My goal is to remain on good terms only, and not have her turn into a vindictive bitch again.
This is new territory for me. I have pretty good game no I've maxed my SMV (which isn't going to help me here), and I've got my shit together. In our interactions how should I proceed? I've thought that if she tries kino on me again I should set a boundary there, but where and how to draw that line? A woman scorned and all that...
Any tips? Anyone been in this territory before? Any advice is very much appreciated.