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[FR] Be dominant in the bedroom

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May 17, 2018

I'll keep this very brief. I'm posting this because for you fuckers that have been lifting, are getting confident, and feeling good - time to cash in the chips and realize your dominance.

There hasn't been much sex between me and the wife for a number of weeks. I've not been too concerned. She's been less-than-ideal as a mother/wife and I've been keeping myself busy with work, study, and spending time looking after my kids. So my attention goes to myself and my kids, and I've spent my free time pursuing my own interests and fun rather than spending time with my wife.

Last night we are on the couch. I'm practising guitar, she's finger-fucking her phone (same as usual)... I'm feeling like I want some, but I realise "thunder you've not been kino-ing, you've not initiated for a while, you're not even giving her any clues that you're up for some". What do I do?

Nothing. She heads up to bed.

Fuck it

I walk into the bedroom, and say "I'm here to take it from you." She's in bed, reading a book. "Take what?" "Take you."

The soft no... she puts up a feeble defense. I move into a dominant position and now she's giggling and says "I'll give you some starfish but I'm not ready yet." But her body says otherwise, and I know that starfish time for her = caveman time for me.

Its a furious session. She is definitely into it. At the end, she's looking more satisfied than I am. I said "I'm heading back to the other room now" which was met with some "ohhh really?" I gave her a quick cuddle, and walked out. This was the "D" in DEVI, and it worked. She had a delightful mixture of puzzled and satisfied grin on her face as I left.


You don't have to preface sex with a heap of kino or buildup. Don't be afraid to just walk in and be dominant.

I had a plan for rejection. I wouldn't have been pissed if I got a hard no. I knew that hard no = a peck on the cheek and a "I'm getting back to practise" exit.

Get fit and fuckable, then reap the rewards.

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Title [FR] Be dominant in the bedroom
Author thunderbeyond
Upvotes 6
Comments 14
Date 17 May 2018 01:16 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red10 points11 points  (7 children) | Copy

Why does you wife know how to properly use the word "starfish" in a sentence?

I am calling BS faggot. Or you are talking about fight club to her.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

My thoughts too. Also, in general, we seem to have a lot of posts from guys who have started to scratch the surface, got a few fucks from their wife, then want to come on and give everyone advise as if they just invented this.

There hasn't been much sex between me and the wife for a number of weeks.

Ok, so he fucks one time and now he needs to get on here and tell everyone about it?

Actually, to be honest, sometimes I'll see some shit slip from flaired members that makes me scratch my head a bit. Like "damn bro, you've got nearly 30 posts on marriedredpill, always preaching, but apparently you still get disrespected mercilessly haven't fucked your fat wife in three weeks."

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Everyone slips up. I caught myself a few days ago sounding like a faggot.

I am 80% with my wife. Anything past that, is not worth the effort to reward equation.

Its why I keep fucking Shelly in the back of my car.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When you've arrived the effort will be on her part...

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yep. Troll.

[–]wekacuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe he's just worried his wife will find his account and read all his posts so he's engaging in some preemptive trollception? Solid OPSEC imho.

Edit: Oh wait... it's definitely a troll. Nothing to see here.

[–]thunderbeyond[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

It is because I've told her before that I don't like starfish sex. She learned the word from me.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good reminder. Fuck when you want to fuck.

“You don't have to preface sex with a heap of kino or buildup. Don't be afraid to just walk in and be dominant.”

Yep. Just remember that the kino and teasing (running Game) is for you - you should be doing all the time- it’s building/releasing tension which equals attraction. Shows her that you have a higher value then her and don’t give a fuck. Reminds her there is a man in the house who wants to fuck.

She might be finger fucking her phone because she’s waiting for you to take charge and do something. She’s bored sitting there listening to your guitar playing, and just wants to feelz something, good or bad, any sort of emotion - it doesn’t matter...but not boredom.

That’s why she scrolls on fuckbook to get the highs and lows of the highlight reel. Don’t get butt hurt over it. All the bitches do it.

Next time, take her phone and hide it or throw it somewhere. Tell her you didn’t give her permission to scroll yet. Carry her to the bedroom like a Dominate caveman. Squat her a few times to show your strength, take her to pound town.

Good job.

[–]EveryGodDamnDay0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just remember that the kino and teasing (running Game) is for you

I like this. My frame, my desires, my actions. It's easy/lazy to keep that CC going: "if I game her right, she'll get excited and I'll get some." Quite the contrary: if I game her, then I have fun, however far it goes.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is definitely into it.

I get where you're going with this, but stop letting your ego lead

[–]peaceful_strong_man0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Also good: get a second wife

[–]DJiamuzak0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A man takes what they want. You also did a “V” in DEVI.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just grab her and put her into position, physically. That'll get her in the mood.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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