I'm not really sure why, but I seem to have lost all interest in women.
I have a tinder account with 20 matches and 50+ likes. I've messaged a couple of them. But I'm just not interested. Right now I should be trying to set up a date, move things forward. But I'm not.
I'm not sure exactly why.
My most recent gf ex contacted me a couple weeks ago. I think she was trying to rekindle something after I broke things off. I'm not really even interested.
I think the issue is that I've lost my Disney view of relationships. And now a relationship doesn't really have any value to me. Why do I need a woman ? More precisely, what is a woman going to do for me ? What value will she add to my life ?
I guess I just don't see the need or the want for that matter. It is kinda shocking to come to this place because all my life prior to RP I chased women. I needed women. I was rarely not in a relationship. And now that I see things for what they are, I can't be bothered to be in a relationship. Relationships used to be about me working my ass off to please them. Because I needed the woman's validation. But I don't anymore. So now what ?
I'm not sure what to say or do about this. Is it a phase I'm going through ? Am I going to meet some woman that blows my socks off ? Because right now all I see are women with agendas. Biffault's law. AWALT, right ?
I guess that is the problem with my Tinder matches. I'm supposed to pursue and chase them. But I look at their profiles or send a few messages and I'm at a loss as to why I need the woman. I'm not in the MGTOW camp by any means, but I'm also not interested in jumping through hoops these days.
Has anyone else gone through this ?