Wifes female friends.

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April 19, 2018

Hi, MEN.

47/M - married for 20, father of 2 (B19 and G16).

Swallowed Red Pill recently. Started lifting hard (SL 5x5) two weeks ago already it starts showing. Keeping up frame, never getting into a shouting match or even try to justifie myself. Baby steps.Funny looks from her. Funny thing is the dread, and i believe it is dread started almost immediatly. In the world i live in, the one i want to call mine any man married man who changes his habits is automatically a suspect. Where are talking european latino (portuguese, italian and spanish) and their DARK wives.

Note : European Latin Wives (especially mixed bloods - Roman, Iberian, Visigoth, Celts, Jews and Africans all in one body diluted over the centurys) are like blood hounds (they sniff you out from a mile away) and very territorial (no potential female is allowed near you). For example my buddys wife found out he was having an affair just because he wiped his feet when he came in the house, something he never did. Hilarious right.

It starts like this :

- she notices a subtle change.

- likes it, apreciate it believing its for her and then talks to her girlfriends.

Girlfriends (specially divorced ones) comment on the change (while smacking their lips) is "He wants another woman or he already has one". NUFF SAID.

Any ideas on how to run interference , eventually take them out of the picture or better use them to my advantage and at the same time mess with them, making them feel me.

Please share. The Ginseng is making me gamy (I believe i was hibernating the last 20 years - stopped being alpha the day i married).

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Title Wifes female friends.
Author jajao13
Upvotes 7
Comments 44
Date 19 April 2018 11:15 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204603
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8ddv7s/wifes_female_friends/
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[–]CaptJohnLukeDiscard15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

My biggest advice is to STFU, not change anything for now, keep lifting, and keep reading. If you just started lifting two weeks ago, then you swallowed the pill two weeks ago.

Do not do a single thing differently for at least a month or two. And shut up about dread. Dread is a tool best used lightly after a firm understanding of what’s going on. If you try to use dread right now, you will screw YOURSELF over. .

Also, any changes you think you see from two weeks of lifting are not real. You are probably just standing with better posture.

In general, slow the hell down. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Stop giving a shit about your wife’s friends and what they think. The only person that you need to focus on right now is you.

If you handle this right, your wife’s friends will want to bang you so bad that they won’t dare put the idea in your wife’s head for fear of ruining their chances. If they still blabber in your wife’s ear, she will probably do her best to keep you. If she doesn’t, you will be a high quality man with options.

[–]jajao13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a marathon, not a sprint.

this. expect the lag

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Divorced females are poison. Articulate this to the wife.

Yeah, she's great, but it sounds like she's jealous that you could hold onto a man

[–]jajao13[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Please explain parts missing

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The two biggest indicators of divorce. Male unemployment and divorced friends.

[–]drty_prRed Beret1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Your wife's friends opinions should mean as much to you as how much your gym clothes match. Less actually. Much less. They will yak, cause that's what bitches do. Yak. Give less fucks.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I think it's important to look good going to the gym. A decent gym fit puts you in a frame of mind that a shabby old tee shirt and crappy sweatpants doesn't.

As for what my wife's friends are thinking... couldn't give a toss tbh.

[–]gameoflibidos2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

depends on the gym... if you go to a hard core gym (just free weights and cable machines and no cardio stuff) it's mostly dudes and no one gives a fuck... the women that do go are on roids and have to shave their face.

If you go to a fitness club type gym.. then yea.. although if you look like you're trying to hard you just look like a fuckboi

[–]drty_prRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

the women that do go...

...go to look at men

[–]The_LitzRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree to an extent. It is more about before and after gym I am going to the shops or picking up kids from school etc.

The exception is my red shirt, always feel stronger wearing it.

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Turn things like this you can’t control in your favor. Shit, I don’t see the problem. They’re amplifying the passive dread without you having to do much. Use it

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I will

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s been two weeks. You’re overthinking it. Just keep on doing you. Don’t worry about the harpies.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Stop thinking check

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t stop thinking, but focus your thoughts on things that actually matter.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Right gotcha

[–]RPAlternate42Red Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Her friends are amplifying dread for you.

Change nothing.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

that... I was gonna say this too. Your friends are just an unearned dread currency for you. However, as others have said she is in a crab bucket of divorced bitches, so any Rambo may push her into their wicked harpy tenticles.

[–]RPAlternate42Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's going to do what she's going to do.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

STFU and expecially don't talk about fight club. Let their hamsters hamster. Don't think about their hamsters. Just slowly make changes in yourself. Slowly improve. Become awesome. And STFU while you are doing this.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Point taken

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Congrats on your first steps towards regaining your manhood. Keep lifting. It takes 2 weeks for you to notice, 2 months for your friends to notice, and six months before everyone notices.

If you like what you’re seeing now, you’re going to love where you end up. Keep going, no excuses, and switch to a PPL routine once you start stalling. (This means more gym per week. Make it happen.)

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

On it

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Who’s frame are you in when you ask this question?

Your question is all about your wife, her friends, and what they think.

What do you want? That’s where you’ll find your frame.

For now, slow down, keep doing the work, HAVE FUN and stop overthinking it.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Will do

[–]InChargeManRed Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

What's the fucking problem? You're afraid that you improving yourself is going to make Mommy uneasy? God forbid, she might talk to another woman about how your are improving...

Who gives a fuck? You mention an example from a friend getting caught cheating, which to me indicates that you are afraid Mommy is going to find out that you are improving yourself. Why the fuck are you afraid of her? And why do you feel fear/shame about this?

For example: "Why are you wearing nicer clothes? Are you cheating?" "Sigh......Yes......You caught me. I didn't actually dry-clean these pants, I just sprayed them with starch, ironed them and re-wore them. Don't tell anybody."

[–]jajao13[S] -4 points-3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thanks you for being só f...g candid but Next time read the entire post before going on a verbal wanking spree in your case DRIVE by self handjob. The question was any original idea on how to thicken the plot with wifeys friends. Think McFly think

[–]InChargeManRed Beret-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm sorry I offended your delicate sensibilities. I'll use Mommy approved language from now on.

You are a giant kitty cat, it's that simple. Instead of spending time thinking about improving yourself you are so far up your wife's Mr. Dumpers that you are trying to think of ways to "run interference". Man the fudge up, get to work, STFU, and stop thinking about what your poopie wife will think every time you do or say something.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I super-applaud improvements. This is a component of improvement. Her friend's doing work for you.

Take mental notes, keep doing what works. Disregard female chatter. If you're focused on you and confident about your MAP how do you even have time to give this a second thought? Besides no pr is bad pr for your changes. It's feels and focus on you.

And in the end we always preach listen to their actions and not words. Women do this instinctively (watch your actions). So if your actions don't match up with her friends words... reality will win. Her friend will come off as a shit stirrer. But again. Fucking chicken clucking banter. GLFs.

[–]The_LitzRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Are you blaming your wife's genes for being a bitch?

You are just awakening, don't overthink this. In the beginning you are going to see a lot of truths solidify before your eyes.

Divorcees can spin things in 2 directions for you.

  • They can encourage your wife to dump your ass and suck the blood out of you.

  • They can serve as an example of how she doesn't want to live her life.

Your problem right now is that your frame wouldn't last a total onslaught if you upped the dread, so take your time.

If you chose a shitty wife, her friends or genetic makeup is not the problem here.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Baby steps. Right.

[–]Chump_No_More0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I fail to see how this is a problem.

Explain to me how your wife's divorced girlfriends 'telling' you wife, "If you're not fucking your hot husband, we will be happy to take you place!" is a bad thing?

What will be most telling is when your wife no longer invites them into your home for fear of poaching.

This is 'pre-selection' at it's finest... learn to roll with it.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks i Will.

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

He wants another woman or he already has one

[Takes woman in arms and kisses her on lips in front of friends] "Your right ladies, I do have one." [Walks away smiling].

Use the friends to turbo charge the hamster and then tease the crap out of them.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why didnt i think of that.

[–]mrpthrowa-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Slow down rambo.

[–]jajao13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks you i Will

[–]thatboyjeff0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Slow down? Why? Keep going, fucko.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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