Posting here because this is just some surface level thoughts, rather than anything groundbreaking. There are some users here and in TRP who seem to be placing too much emphasis on how to “keep/control” your wife. Something about the whole tone and nature of the discussion disturbs me at both a subconscious and conscious level. My current feeling is that the GOALS differ between my style of red pill and those which place any importance on keeping a relationship. Worrying about a woman leaving shows a lack of abundance and shows that you give a fuck. Displaying either of these, or even feeling like that subconsciously is a weakness she will detect and detest.
My feeling now is that some guys are simply way too invested in keeping/controlling their wife. There are some tendencies to overthink and overcomplicate the idea of a red pill relationship. In my view there is no such thing as a red pill relationship, there is simply relationships led by red pill men. Worrying about the end of any relationship is essentially a bluish/purple pill. Some guys are adopting a trad con purple pill. Am I wrong here? I ask here because the members here have been there and done that so no point talking about LTRs in the main sub. My view on the red pill is that it is fairly simple in the context of a relationship, you simply are not scared to lose her. You don’t need a complicated relationship rule book, because if she leaves, that is great you spin plates again. If you want another LTR then just start one. Who gives a shit if she leaves?