Married red pillers who are 10/10 satisfied with your marriage, what makes it great?

88Will88 · 2018-03-23T19:27:24+00:00

I just like her shiny coat, long tail and the horn on her forehead

alphasixfour · 2018-03-19T21:05:48+00:00

I’ll give this a go as a fairly new guy myself.

I don’t think you will have too many replies at all that will say they are completely satisfied with their marriage or life for that matter.

One of the things I have had to learn and am still learning is the importance of the journey and process rather than the destination.

Breathing a sigh of relief at the destination is a great way to wish your life away and lock yourself into a beta mindset.

An alpha can’t relax. Won’t relax. There is shit to do, things to improve. Abundance mentality and use of MRP as sexual strategy is about improving yourself continually, for the endless process itself becomes the goal rather than aspiring to a mythical 10/10 destination.

The minute I get satisfied, fat dumb and happy is the minute I start failing shit tests and start the slide back to beta weakness.

It’s the journey man.

UEMcGill · 2018-03-19T21:04:04+00:00

I'm never satisfied. There's always work to be done. I strive to be the best leader I can be and push our abilities as a couple.

I'm more attractive than her because I'm a 45 year old executive who's jacked and can suit up. She's 38 with 3 kids and while she can still turn some heads my upside is way greater. Shes a good mother and adds value to my life.

There's a difference between complacent and satisfied. I love her don't get me wrong, but even in a great marriage I would never be satisfied. There's always work to be done.

ImSteveMcQueen · 2018-03-20T00:54:34+00:00

First, 10/10 satisfaction is not a goal for me.

She adds value. Without her adding to my life, what is the point?

I add value to her life, otherwise why would she stay?

It really isn't complicated.

thunderbeyond · 2018-03-20T11:40:52+00:00

I can see you're clearly looking for data for some sort of research you are doing. Don't expect much love here.

But clearly:

BJs on demand
Unexpected BJs
BJs from her hot friends

RedPillCoach · 2018-03-20T15:33:29+00:00

There is no perfect "10."

Every marriage has ups and downs, good times and bad times. Every woman is hypergamous. Every woman Shit Tests. **Every woman is solipsistic to a lesser or greater degree.

Remember the vows? Those are a guard against female (and male) hypergamy. You say 'for richer or for poorer' not 'until I feel that I "love" you but I am not in love with you.

My wife rarely turns me down and makes a lot of money but that just means I have little to no control over "her" money while "my" money is for the family. It just means that even though she is a strong Christian woman that she will not 'submit' because she is a strongindependentwoman. It just means she uses her negotiating skills to challenge, cajole, and nag her husband. AWALT!

Believe me when I tell you this brothers, it is always the same story just different tax brackets. The Wild Card is you!! Just about the only variable in the equation is you and while that is a lot of responsibility, it also means we now know how to fix the marriage- by fixing yourself with the added benefit that if it doesn't "fix" the marriage you are in a great position to do better next time.

In many ways, the only thing separating the "good" marriages from the divorces is the "C" word (and I don't mean C-nt). When you get married you vow to be with this person until death and to satisfy the needs of the other person even if it means sacrificing what you might want in the moment. It means "Commitment" and there is far to little of it these days, especially from women and especially from reformed sluts and CC riders.

The problem with most of these guys is they sacrifice to much and the wife takes advantage of them and bullies them into a sexless marriage, which often causes a death spiral of despair, and hopelessness which is, of course, extremely unattractive.

CaptJohnLukeDiscard · 2018-03-20T02:46:29+00:00

First, my wife had a very low n count. Christian background, conservative, submissive, etc. Second, she adds a high amount of value to my life (cooks, cleans, makes decent money on side, excellent mother, responds to me when I Captain). Third, she is smoking hot. These are all important to me.

That said, I’m not satisfied. Being satisfied is a great way to slip into being beta like I did for 8ish years. I recognize that I’m not where I want to be but my trajectory is up. What’s good is that when a man owns his shit, his family trajectory is usually up too.

Edit: Saw second part of the question. We are both mid 30s. SMVs similar now though mine was substantially higher when we met. She has become a fitness junkie since then. I’m higher BF% now than I want to be (18.5) but still muscular. I would guess her SMV for women her age is 8 or 9 and mine is 7 or 8 for men my age.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-03-20T00:58:45+00:00

You know what makes it great? MRP. MRP is just the greatest, and I have to tell you about those other subs. They try, but they're nothing like MRP. MRP has the best people, mark my words. Your rating scale of ten doesn't come close to how great MRP is. And the relationships! They are also great. As great and yuge as can be.

For all the haters out there, my IQ is one of the highest — and you all know it! Please don’t feel so stupid or insecure; it’s not your fault.

Olderpiller · 2018-03-20T02:28:56+00:00

No such thing as a 10/10 in any real relationship. My relationship is a hell of a lot better than it used to be and probably better than most but it is not a 10. I still have to improve and strive and so does she. But the large majority of the time she makes my life better and we have minimal internal drama. MRP was key to getting here

screechhater · 2018-03-21T02:52:00+00:00

Me. I am the prize.

Mother fucker

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-03-19T21:11:18+00:00

Anal.

ex_addict_bro · 2018-03-25T21:08:14+00:00

Being able to say "fuck off" to people trying to do some research on us.

Title	Married red pillers who are 10/10 satisfied with your marriage, what makes it great?
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Date	March 19, 2018 8:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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