What do you guys make of being constantly being threatened with divorce?

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March 16, 2018

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Title What do you guys make of being constantly being threatened with divorce?
Author Author100
Upvotes 7
Comments 28
Date 16 March 2018 07:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204716
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[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]PersaeusRed Beret11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

not much. you might want to physically show her where the door is in your house

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

😂 🤣

[–]tslextslex5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well, if you want to be helpful, photo from inside of house showing location of front door. Use drawing tool to highlight. Send via text msg.

ETA: @Persaeus, GMTA. I just take too long to type.

To OP, assuming you are not a troll, if this is the disease she has likely named the cure.

[–]Trtntrenbrah6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Would be way less concerned about my OPSEC

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please, please, please, oh pretty please, hell I'll help you pack.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Constantly” ?

All it takes is one.

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Threatened? Does not compute.

[–]classicthrowaway863 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This was my wives classic go to, to win any argument, and it used to work for her. I’d change my tune and say don’t be stupid and convince her to stay.

Once I started saying go for it, I’ll even help you with the papers. She hasn’t said it since.

[–]binrobinro2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

When she said that to me, I stopped at a Lawyer on the way home the next day. After dinner, I was filling out the papers when she entered the kitchen to see what I was doing.

Then we had a long talk...

[–]The_LitzRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

My wife did it once when I was BP, I stressed and backed off and gave her space.

After the pill she mentioned it once, and my exact words were: "There is the door, fuck off out of my house" Upto that day I had never sworn at her, so it was a huge shock to her system, and no, she didn't go and she never threatened again.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Similar here. Seems once you confront it scorched earth style, and mean it, it stops.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's only a threat and has weight if it actually matters

I hit a raw nerve last night with my past and current problems. I survived a cult, I can survive this bullshit with the SO....

It only matters, if it has merit.

If you two aren't fucking, what does it really matter ?

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I survived a commune (they called themselves a neighborhood collective).

Fun times huh?

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know, I'm not married.

This is a low effort thread, right?

[–]DanG31 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

“If you truly love me, set me free. Maybe I’ll come back.”

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wife would get to make that threat once.

I'd explain that it was her one fuck up and if she said it again, it's done.

But... My wife isn't a childish cunt and can communicate without throwing out ultimatums.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Next time you mention divorce I hope it will be during the day while Home Depot is open." Her: Why? "You'll be out the door so fast the hinges will break."

[–]broneilbro1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Call her bluff...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My wife did that twice in an argument, so I threw it right back at her. Didn't do that again

[–]Alphaphux0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Laugh it off. "There's the door."

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The hardest part is trying to act like it's no big deal as I get her suitcases down from attic storage.

[–]Author1000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


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