I am new to MRP, but I can't get enough of it. I used to (not too long ago) be a beta poster child, but am really pulling my shit together. It has been life changing and I am only getting started. Just in the last couple weeks I have read NMMNG and MMSLP. I DEFINITELY need to re-read them, as there is a lot of information I didn't soak up.
Anyway, I am faced with a situation tonight that I need some advice on. I know I will find it through more studying, but I don't want to fuck this up. Hopefully you guys can lend me some insight in the mean time.
Every time we have sex, my wife is the one with frame. I want it often and am adventurous, and she wants it every 3-4 months and is pretty conservative. So our whole marriage it has been me initiating every day or so and getting turned down and her initiating every 3-4 months and me giving her the vanilla sex she wants. Tonight she has asked for sex, and the only thing that comes to mind that will allow me to maintain frame is to deny her (which I know is breaking a cardinal rule), so without flat-out denying her, how can I maintain frame when she is initiating sex on her terms (which are unacceptable to me [i.e., every 3-4 months and totally vanilla])?
It is possible this won't happen again for 3-4 months, so I don't want to fuck this up.
Thoughts?
EDIT: Thank you so much guys...I really appreciate it. Great, great advice. I'm going to enjoy it, and I am going to do it for me.
[–]creating_my_life25 points26 points27 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]johneyapocalypse1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FlyingSexistPig7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]zeno_of_shitium0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BobbyPeru7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]alchamest3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]alchamest1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rocknrollchuck2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]redbeaux 1 points1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]simbarlionRed Beret1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]redbeaux 1 points1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]The_LitzRed Beret1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]justpickanyusernameRed Beret0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]-DiscoStu0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DeeMooreDeeMarriet0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]The_LitzRed Beret0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ArticulateSavage0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]donedreadpirateRed Beret0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FoxShitNasty830 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RedPillCoach-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link