What do you think? Shit test or not?

Interesting. There isn't enough in your post history to make the call if this was the right response. Yet for the group, as a learning point I will try to channel my inner Jack.

Most guys come in here with the TRP attitude that women as bitches and need to be put in their place. She's a cunt who doesn't fuck right? If that's the only attitude there door is over there. Admit right now you entered into a marriage. Shitty deal? Sure, but it's the choice you made. If you can just take a moment and consider this.

Without a doubt I don't necessarily agree with the idea that "women are completely empty and void of anything waiting for the right man to take complete control." On the surface it seems that not compelling with this servant request was the correct attitude. I for one would be interested in the second and third after effects of our hero's decision here. I fully expect her to be a bitch and to talk about what a ass her husband is. AWALT right? Ammi right?

One has to consider the task at hand. Sure our hero had just sat down. I've have asked our would be Alphas...did you earn it yet? We already know women are watching everything we do. gain a little weight and they take note, though they won't say anything. The advice there would be....don't be a fatty and get back in the gym. here? yeah...fuck women. Hero sat down put on his slippers and kicked back.

Chore play doesn't work, but real changes in how you go about your day, your behaviors, and how you run your life do. If you haven't done any of these her request, you sitting on the couch, despite the list of things you've done and have yet to do...simply creates yet another shit test. that chore play argument works both ways. She, us, nor anyone else really gives shit what you have done. It's what you do that matters.

It's a hard thing to understand and to get right. This isn't to say men should do things for their women if they don't deserve it. Yet men need to understand that she wants you to actively seek problems and obstacles, then remove them if you can. Why else do you think saying "just tell me what you want me to do" is pointless. They don't want the thing fixed they don't want the broken thing to have existed in the first place. Men need to be proactive. Think down the road.