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And now she doesn't want to go to the strip club.

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January 19, 2018
9 upvotes

Maybe it's simple but I seem to be at a bit of a loss at the moment. A few weeks ago, my wife excitedly suggested we go out of town, visit a particular strip club and have a fun night. She never suggests things. We have been here a few times and it's very couples friendly. She has fun, I have fun and I usually lay some descent dread. Always a hot and heavy bang afterwards. Anyway, I kind of shrugged off her suggestion at the time.

A week later she mentions it again. She cutely pesters me. I agree this time that it would be a fun evening and go to work arranging a babysitter for our 2 kids. Trust worthy baby sitters are very hard to come by for us.

So tonight is the night. We wrapped up our work early for the day and I'm about to drop the kids off at the babysitter. She doesn't seem very enthusiastic about going and suggest may be we go do something else...the flakiness begins.

What do I do in a situation like this? I'd really like to go... But then again I really don't give a fuck. Plan something else? Ask her what she wants to do? Say fuck it and drag her anyway? Stay in and read or go out and grab a beer with my buddies?

Ask away...scold away!


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Title And now she doesn't want to go to the strip club.
Author Scrillywanka
Upvotes 9
Comments 23
Date 19 January 2018 08:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204924
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/7rl6p7/and_now_she_doesnt_want_to_go_to_the_strip_club/
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[–]jimmybo197224 points25 points  (6 children) | Copy

She is no longer ovulating.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the real answer.

[–]BobbyPeru1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is no longer ovulating.

My exact first thought

[–]crimson_chris9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Post-ovulation for women is like post orgasm for men. Most men are probably up for anything when they have blue balls, but after we we cum.......sometimes it's like "WTF did I just do?"

A woman's level of horniness is like her emotions, it comes and goes like the wind (for most women). I got home last night and my wife was having a hard time with the kids. She was almost in tears (does not happen frequently, but nothing new). I got the kids in order but ignored her "emotional crisis". I kid you not, 10mins later she was all smiles and jokes.

Bitches be fluid. That is why the man needs to be the rock.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao my that is so true it's hilarious. My wife was crying the other day because she thought she turned in some paperwork late. She realizes the due date was 08/02/18 not 02/08/18 (she's foreign so they read dates backwards where she's from.) Between her going downstairs and coming back up she went from crying and sobbing to having out of the blue raging sex with me. I would hate to be that much of an emotional roller coaster every day.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Send me the money. Ill put it to better use than a stripper will.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Always a hot and heavy bang afterwards.

Covert contract much?

Too bad you're not attractive enough to get laid without it.

[–]HLM341 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just go by yourself

[–]Alpha_Engineer991 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Haven’t been tracking her cycle?

Reverse engineer it to the exact day to figure out what day her cycle was on. Mine gets playful days 14-17.

Set it up for next month for the same time frame. Don’t ask her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Something more intimate then? I usually go to a secluded area that looks out onto the water/beach with some wine.

[–]NoCoast820 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She mentions something, then suggests it, then pesters you, and you get the baby sitter....

Who is in charge in this situation?

I am still wet behind the ears with the RP, but my wife hinted at going to a strip club in the last week or two and it fits into our schedule next saturday. I know where we are going to dinner, child care is taken care of (as of a week ago) and if she backs out of the club I know a trendy bar wr can go to that has drinks she likes and I can likely get some dread going.

Dont blame it on ovulation when she was overt with her desire (that was mutually benificial) and you did I dont know what the fuck with that information.

Wife wants to go to strip club + you you want to go to strip club does not equal you wait for her to keep bringing it up. Take charge and do

If your wife is pestering you it should be for something that is just not on your list of priorities and you just stfu and dgaf. If she is pestering you for a fun night that likely ends in great sex, you already missed that boat because you already done fucked up

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Look up the PUA concept of buying temperature. It's a really good description of an interesting aspect of human behavior.

[–]wekacuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Could just be LMR and she's just anxious, insecure, uncomfortable etc and needs some comfort and reassurance.



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