So the wife's BFF is going through a nasty divorce. The details are unimportant, but suffice it to say she'll be looking for a new lay here sooner rather than later, probably a beta comfort fuck. The bff in question is a fitness instructor, in obviously good shape, and fairly attractive, as is my wife, who works out with her 4-5x a week. They are both way post-wall (early 40's and multiple kids), but still cougars capable of taking down a younger buck if they were so inclined. My best friend went through an amicable divorce two years ago, and I know from experience that the process begets some serious "grass is greener" syndrome. I would flip through his tinder account looking at all the hoes, imagining how much pussy I would be tagging in his shoes. I have a decent, but not great, dread game (maybe DL4) after several years of dancing monkey improvement game, and a month or so of taking MRP more seriously. In my possibly flawed analysis, instilling dread is the absolute antidote to "grass is greener". So my question is this:
What are the implications of friends divorces, of both sexes, as it relates to dread levels, nexting, branch swinging, etc? Are there any strategies or experiences you've seen or been through to shift the situation to your advantage?