As some of you may remember, my world got turned upside down 2 months ago when my newborn son died after 36 days because of an aggressive brain tumor. We are trying to pick up our lives again step by step.
As you can imagine, dealing with the death of our son is difficult, maybe even more so for my LTR than for me. As was recommended in Shitty Comfort Test, I am her oak whenever she breaks down and I am there to comfort her. And as you can also imagine, sex has been
absent (too) low this past two months... I understand she is not yet ready to get humped again so I give her her space. Flirting and kino is still present, she does not recoil from me touching her but sex is still impossible for her.
This morning, however, she clearly got herself ready to pity fuck me: "I know you need your sex and it is not fair of me to deny you. We still have 15 minutes before the kids wake so you can go ahead and fuck me". Needless to say I was not aroused (a little butthurt) and not in the mood at all. Luckily? our daughter saved me by waking right after my LTR speaking so I did not have to respond..
How should we (not specifically me in my rather unique? situation) react to a pity fuck? I would rather not get my dick wet after 'getting permission because she has to' because I deserve better than that. But I would love to hear your opinions on this...