What if the reality is that you will never surpass your wife's SMV?

ex_addict_bro · 2017-10-24T23:52:21+00:00

Your post is overly focused on a woman and reads like prime r/CuckoldFiction material. Just copy-paste this post and use it as an introduction.

hystericalbonding · 2017-10-24T21:47:18+00:00

However, we are all operating within RP based on the assumption that if we put in the work and make the changes we can pass SMV of your significant other, and induce dread. What if (for the time being) it just isn't possible?

If it's all a big covert contract for blowjobs, then you're doing it wrong. Your mindset is the problem, not your abs. /u/sexyshoulderdevil called you out in your first post. I don't see progress on this.

SMV in PUA is based on common preferences, casting a wide net. Individuals have their own preferences. You don't have to be hotter by your standards in order to push her buttons the right way. It certainly helps, particularly in terms of confidence, but it is neither necessary nor sufficient.

12 stages of dread is a canned MAP, but the results are not all about fear of loss, hysterical bonding, or subjective SMV graphs. In other words, it's not all about dread. If you are attractive to a woman (confidence, frame, game, face, body, grooming, dress, scent), and you don't do unattractive things (omega habits, finances, social skills) then she's more likely to fuck you. It doesn't matter if your wife goggles convince you that she's an 8.

gettingmymojoback · 2017-10-24T23:03:09+00:00

Your SMV doesn't have to be higher than hers....it has to be higher than her options.

It doesn't take much to be in the top 20% of men these days. Not fat gets you most of the way there.

simbarlion · 2017-10-24T23:00:38+00:00

Ok homie whats the story? Your married to a hottie and you bust your ass to stay in top shape.

If she is into you who gives a fuck if your jabba the hut? Is your hamster future gazing into a world where 60 yr old hot wife is going to cheat on you?

Can't you just count yourself lucky that you batted above average?

Or perhaps you could substitute the diet cola with sugar cola so she plumps out a bit?

MRPN00b · 2017-10-24T22:26:29+00:00

First, 8's at 40 exist. Though I'd go no higher. One was rubbing her tits on me in Vegas while the guy she came with sat there helpless. The general concensus though is women will fall before men. So unless you're so far down the SMV curve that you NEVER will pass her, you'll pass her.

That's without putting in effort. You just have to burn 20-30 years depending on your age to get there. If you do t want to waste your life, you can improve now. And a great part about being a guy is that, unlike women who's SMV is based in large part on their looks, s guy can change his night to night based on something as simple as preselection. Go in, work the crowd, maybe even acquire pawns, boom SMV up.

But I'm catching some kind of laziness from you, that the fact that she "works out 90 min per day"somehow puts her out of reach. You know men have the advantage here too right? That your hormones allow you to build muscle faster? Are you working out 90 min a day too? If not, why not? Is it really not possibly for you to surpass her? Or is it really haaaaard.

ReddJive · 2017-10-25T11:01:51+00:00

Yeah

I have no idea what your problem is.

MRPN00b · 2017-10-25T14:35:29+00:00

Irrational Confidence brother, Irrational Fucking Confidence.

weakandsensitive · 2017-10-24T21:40:30+00:00

But my wife is low to mid 40's and is a solid 8.

You delusional fuck. Your wife look anything at all remotely like this? No. No she doesn't. She's old, wrinkly, and been hit by an ugly stick a few times. At 40, she doesn't retain that youthful exuberance.

She might look good relative to 40 year olds, but she won't hold a candle to 25 year olds. This one graph tells you everything you need to know about age + SMV.

bigOlBeta · 2017-10-24T23:36:07+00:00

I don’t think you need to be at a higher SMV to successfully use dread. She just has to value the relationship on some levels

man_in_the_world · 2017-10-25T03:24:06+00:00

What if this post, and apparently your whole MRP effort, weren't entirely about your wife?

Dance, monkey, dance.

Food for thought.

BobbyPeru · 2017-10-25T04:17:22+00:00

But my wife is low to mid 40's and is a solid 8. She gets attention wherever she goes.

Any woman over a 6 will get attention wherever she goes.

Focus on yourself and quit worrying about any delta. It’s a symptom of oneitis

[deleted] · 2017-10-25T14:00:35+00:00

MrpBoob- as others have said, (and I'm stealing this because it's profound) you have to be better than her options. A guy at 40+ with a 4-pack is in the upper ~20% of male fitness, so you are on a similar level as her. Women are not dudes. They are not only attracted by body shape/physical features like guys. They also crave masculinity they way we like femininity, so you need to step up or keep up your masculine game. That is what being an RP for 18 months should have taught you by now.

SorcererKing · 2017-10-25T20:01:13+00:00

This whole post is fallacious. It assumes that SMV is purely physical. For women, that's about right. For you, there's fashion/style, Game, lifestyle, hobbies, career...

The guys who get the hottest women are not necessarily the best looking guys, they are the most fun, have the most game, know how to handle women.

Title	What if the reality is that you will never surpass your wife's SMV?
Author	MRPN00b
Upvotes	7
Comments	70
Date	October 24, 2017 9:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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