Background: Discovered MRP about a month ago. Went rambo around then (which then required increased comforting, but I held on to DGAF frame)... needed to just STFU, work on Frame. We put that incident way behind us. I've been lifting and diet change for last 2-3 months, with noticeable physical improvements. Have read all of sidebar up to Red Pill Sidebar and Dread. My SMV is above my wife's (but she has a pussy, and still controls it). Sex is 1 to 2 times per week (similar to pre MRP levels). Quality is getting way better as I embrace being a man and read more about DEVI (but baby steps here). Frequency is still lower than I like and I still feel like I'm asking/waiting for it (though she initiated last weekend, even during the tail end of shark week, which is unheard of).
So, this weekend, I'm taking one or two of the three kids to the mountains (without wife). So I'm trying to get a lay or two in before I leave for a long weekend. Last night, after the kids went down and a little bit of clean up, I said "how about a quickie" with a smirk since I had a commitment later that evening. Of course I expected a "no" and my OI was fine, but she complained that "why did I have to say that, and make her uncomfortable" I had no good response, but I didn't apologize. I kept my smirk up, did some other OYS items and then left.
This morning, before work, I grabbed my wife (and picked her up) as the Nanny was about to walk in, and said "I want to ravage you"... she being paranoid about the Nanny walking in, didn't like it, and again, said "why do you have to do that, why can't you be normal" I reply with, "I am normal, and I like making you uncomfortable" with a big ass smile. She goes, "why? you should be making me comfortable.." and I don't respond, thinking in my mind that I want her to be uncomfortable. A minute later, I give everyone a kiss and leave for work.
Am I still too newbie to do this? I can't tell if I'm losing my frame, since I'm not sure if my responses are good enough. Should I keep this rate of sexual tension/suggestion up? I'm doing this because "I want to". She hates it (at least verbally). But should I pull back and give her space and let her come to me? Part of me feels like I need to continue to DGAF, and go after what I want when I want it. But then I have the BP nature that wants to say "this relationship is pretty good". But then again, I also have used the MRP/RP to disrupt my marriage. Thoughts?