Long time lurker, first time poster...created this account just for here. While I am reasonably sure of my action/choice going forward, I am looking for y'alls outside perspective on this before I go all Rambo.
First off, yes I lift...rehabbing disc and rotator cuff injuries. SL 5x5 current numbers: ohp 105, bench 155, squat 155, dl 260, row 135. 6 ft, 202, 22% bf...upping cardio. Dropped 40 lbs in last 9 months. Have read sidebar.
Now for my question. I recently found out that my wife has been giving a birthday presents to one of her younger (by 10 years) single male co-workers. I know that this shouldn't bother me, but it does. Especially since she hasn't remembered my birthday eight of the last 10 years (Yes I need to work on letting it go). I am struggling with setting a boundary here without looking butthurt, especially since she is being sneaky about the gifts (e.g. she doesn't know that I know). Any suggestions? I know that I should just let it go and laugh it off while hitting the iron but I just can't get past it.
Ok, have it and fire for effect.