I know there's probably no easy answer to this other than just fucking do it. But maybe some of you have some tips. I went from being the laziest piece of shit. To now owning my shit and literally I need at least 2 more hours in a day to get everything I need done and sleep enough to function the next day.
I work a m-f full time job. Run a side business that's takes up a lot of my time. Have an LTR. Lift 5 days a week for 1.5 hours a day. Meal prep. Clean my place. Fix my place. Do my laundry all the other shit that consist of being a man. My Ltr def helps a lot with chores and cooking but she has a lot of free time at the moment which will change soon.
The way my hours are right now they blow I'm trying to find something with better hours. I'm 11a-730p. Then side business after till about 930-10. Then gym 10-1130. Then eat. Cook. Clean. Shower. Gf time. Then sleep at like 3am then up again at 8-9. This past week I've had to work 6a-730p. And nothing else has changed so I'm getting like 3 hours of sleep a night. And my days all feel rushed.
My gf doesn't see me much so I try to make weekends for us and a lot to catch up on the side business. Bc of this man time with the boys has been rare. I'm swamped. And it's been fine for the first couple months but man is it all starting to catch up to me. I'm practically falling asleep at work. When I get home I just want to sleep. But I don't have time. I feel like it's become all work and no play. No rest. No relaxation. Just grinding. I was fueled by it all at first but now the fire is starting to die down. And shit keeps on adding up on the to do list. I want to continue the grind but my body literally is fucking exhausted. Then little shit like (we just moved) and I have some things to unpack has been getting put off still need to clean out and sell the old place. I know my LTR is looking at the boxes like "are you going to do this shit already" but my body is like bro. Lay the fuck down. But if I get a second to lay the gf is like. Let's do something. I'm bored. (Fuck I need to lead. Here we go) I'm falling asleep during movies we watch. My body doesn't even think about sex as much as it used to bc it just wants sleep. I've been sucking it the fuck up. This is actually the first I even talked about it. But man is it getting to me. And I don't even have kids yet! Christ. How the fuck do you guys do it? Any advice?