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Living life in the moment

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July 29, 2017
6 upvotes

So last night I had to work late, then I had to hang around the town where I work to do an apartment viewing (I'm the landlord).

With an hour to kill I wandered into the local bar and ordered a lemonade. I stood there at the bar playing with my phone as people do these days because they don't want to look weird or lonely, and then after a while in walked a group of women.

This tall leggy brunette stood next to me to order a drink. Without thinking I said 'you're tall' which got her interest and we got chatting. I'd had a rough week so I was acting like a disinterested badass and she lapped it up. I was fucking bold with the compliments and as blunt as you like, the opposite to how I used to chat women up when I was younger (I'm mid-30s, she was mid-20s).

This girl had a 1 yr old daughter and was separated - the father had taken the kid for the whole weekend so she was out to let her hair down.

The way she looked at me biting her lip and staring into my eyes made it obvious she was DTF. As I had to leave, I took her number. She wants me to call her.

I mentioned that I was married with kids and that it's complicated. She seemed ok with that.

Today, I felt like I could have done the apartment viewing, driven back to the bar, marched her out of there and to the empty apartment and fucked her brains out.

Instead I went home and proceeded to get both barrels from the wife about how I've been 'snappy' with her lately.

I do not want to be lay on my deathbed with a string of regrets about fit, gorgeous, young girls that I didn't fuck.

I don't want to get to 50 plus and find that the only way I can fuck a girl in her mid-20s is if I pay for it (which has never appealed to me).

I don't want to lose my kids in a messy divorce or see some other guy bring them up.

In short, I want to have my cake and eat it.

Should I have fucked that hot girl last night?


Post Information
Title Living life in the moment
Author Jimbocaan2
Upvotes 6
Comments 10
Date 29 July 2017 07:31 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/205784
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6qcww8/living_life_in_the_moment/
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[–]red_blue_and_hot16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

Your wife as you walked in the door:

"Wow, he looks happy. Almost like some other woman hit on him. But, nah, wouldn't happen, would it? He hasn't found where I hid his balls, has he? You know, he does look pretty happy, and... kinda sexy. Let's throw a shit test his direction... see if he's worth fucking. Hope he passes it, that'd turn me on."

"Nope, same Jimbo... sigh I really wish he could pass my shit tests... I could use a real good fucking. Maybe next time."

[–]Blunter-S-Thompson1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

u/Jimbocaan2 this should be you

[–]RPJMRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup

[–]screechhaterRed Beret11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

side bar is right over there >>>>>>>>

Apparently you are missing something, In your own words

"Instead I went home and proceeded to get both barrels from the wife about how I've been 'snappy' with her lately"

Go ahead fuck 'em but @least own it and the consequences of A- getting caught and B- being the low value man that repeats and rinses the tall brunette will eventually give you the blast too

Part of the gaming work here is to exude OI and Abundance, game the wife and results may vary depending on the work, fuck her, because she was waiting for you

But, then again, you could have flipped the script and AA the snippy as getting attention to give you a BJ, upon rejection, go back and fuck the brunette after as she was primed, but alas: A fagging we will go, hi ho, hi ho

Tears will flow on your deathbed pillow Ted, as long as you avoid the inevitable, the work

[–]RPJMRP8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck man, sometimes I just don't get the sub. If you are regretting anything...then obviously you didn't live in the moment.

Second- if one interaction, if the knowledge that you let one woman go that you could have fucked fills you with regret, then you are nowhere near outcome independent or even a high value man.

You are drawing a comparison btwn a tall brunette getting tingles at a bar when her intentions that night were likely to go out and find an idiot to provide for her offspring with that of the woman who has watched you be a drunk captain for a decade or however long you've been married. There is no comparison. Not yet anyways. The interesting part of your story has nothing to do with the exchange at the bar.

Attracting a random woman at a bar is ridiculously easy. Inspiring respect and creating an atmosphere for your family to thrive is much more difficult. The exchange at your house and the result it had on your mood speaks volumes about your frame or lack there of.

Now let's say you were really a high-value man. Let's say you came home to a wife looking to fuck? And I don't mean starfish. I mean the kind of fucking that comes from knowing someone for a decade. The kind where you both know what sets the other off...and you take advantage of those things. Would you still be regretting passing on the awkward first encounter sex you would have had with the leggy brunette?

Cheating on your wife is your business. My biggest problem with men who choose to cheat is it CAN be an indicator of weakness. In some scenarios, it just means a man is choosing to take advantage of the sexual strategy presented to him. In others, it is a sign of men putting women/pussy on a heightened place above where they should be.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I read somewhere, once, that a shit test could be (turned into) foreplay.

Now WHERE did I read that?

Google?

Magazine?

The bathroom wall?

Newspaper?

Or maybe, fuck YES, MAYBE...

It was RIGHT OVER FUCKING THERE!!!

Look man, that was not the last piece of pussy you'll ever get to bang.

You got a solid IOI from younger-hotter-tighter, and you number closed?

Then you got home and reality kicked you in the nuts.

YOU are the Captain.

YOU are in charge.

YOU create your reality.

Hard work (sidebar-read-lift) gets strong results. Of course, less to no work gets you less to nothing.

Don't be a child playing with dynamite.

OWN YOUR SHIT!

Now, if you want a wife that is DTF instead of snippy when you get home; then kino, game, and read the article "create your own slut."

Happy fucking

[–]BobbyPeru2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have to make that call on your own. Weigh the risk /rewards, and if its something you can live with. TRP is amoral, so don't look for advice in that way.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes , are you happier now ?

[–]stew7000-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

You could have done something to better yourself during that hour other than sitting in a bar scrolling away on your phone. That's the first thing.

Second, the way you talk about your wife shows that you see her as the problem. She's your mirror. You are the problem. And the nice part about that, is that you are also the solution.

Get to work. Lead. Be disciplined. Be attractive. Your wife isn't attracted to you and that's on you. Remember that.

Your death bed will be a pretty pathetic place to be if you remember some one night stand (or several). By contrast, if your death bed gives you a chance to reminisce on that night that you passed on a one night stand and decided to be the man you knew you could be -- and then spent the next years becoming -- and never let up on becoming until you couldn't move any longer.. well that's a death bed to look forward to.

[–]Blunter-S-Thompson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your death bed will be a pretty pathetic place to be if you remember some one night stand (or several). By contrast, if your death bed gives you a chance to reminisce on that night that you passed on a one night stand and decided to be the man you knew you could be -- and then spent the next years becoming -- and never let up on becoming until you couldn't move any longer.. well that's a death bed to look forward to.

Hear, fucking hear!



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