So since coming here I have been owning my Shit religiously. I want to thank you guys for pushing me. I am not only doing everything that needs to get done around my house but I am looking for more things to do. I used to come home and just relax and play on my phone. Now no matter how tired I am. Everything gets done before I rest. And even then after I am reading MMSLP
I also in the last year have got jacked, shredded to the bone, abs, muscle. I am in the best shape of my life. Financially am also. Always had game and never been in any lagging of abundance with women. Anyway.
Now my SO is in nursing school so she hasn't made it to the gym being so busy and has said on multiple occasions about how she wants to be on the same level as me, and can't wait till she can get back in the gym. Ive got her to come on a couple runs with me to keep her active. She used to do my laundry and dishes and all but now that I take care of that she hasn't had to do anything but focus on school. She's loving it, I can tell she less anxious and also has made many comments about it.
She just finished her one class and had asked if she could go out for drinks to a bar across the street with her girls and classmates. She rarely ever goes out (once every 6 months maybe). So I tell her of course go have fun. I went to the gym.
She calls me a little while after I got back and asked if I was home. I said yes and she said okay good I'm coming back. Now my SO rarely rejects me for sex and when she don't want to she will at least blow me. So it's all good there. We also fucked before she went out and I knew she would be horny after.
She came in and I asked if she had fun. She said yea it was good to see everyone. But her one friend there, we'll call her Sarah. Sarah's boyfriend was there and was hitting on her all night. She kept saying it made her uncomfortable. I wasnt sure how to respond of if this was some sort of test, I was going to AA but I didn't feel like it was the right situation. So I didn't say anything. I let her continue talking about it. She said he kept asking for a hug and was doing other stuff. I couldn't help but laugh when she said "when I left he was asking where's my hug" Bc we all know those type of guys.
I remained stoic and then she had brought up that Sarah texted her and apologized for her bf. But I didn't hear her get any text message. And also wondered why she brought it up again.
Could this be her trying to show me guys still hit on her and that she's "wanted" some type of dread game towards me. Should I have said anything when she was talking about it. Or just kind of ignore it like it did? Am I thinking into this too much? I'm just wondering what her reasoning for telling me this was. I know she gets hit on she's smoking hot. But she usually doesn't mention it. Is there some underlying message I was missing here?
Edit: I obviously know she didn't want to do anything with this dude. I'm wondering if maybe she was looking for me to respond in a "protective" manner.
"Oh yea? I'll go fuck him up no body touches my baby but me 😉"
Or just handle it how I did