Hey guys,

Would you consider it a bad move (aka blue pill thinking) to compliment your wife when she looks hot? Or is that more a reward behavior type thing, i.e. something you should say as a reward for desired behavior (sex). All the same it's hard to see my wife walk out the door looking great, in her above the knee skirt and lipstick- without saying a word. One of the things I'm trying to work on is dread at the moment though, so I don't want to undermine my own plan.