This was handled much better than in years past, but there's still room for improvement. At the beach over the weekend. At one point, I'm further out in the waves with our daughter, she's further in with the little kids. I'm enjoying the sight of a tight Asian girl coming out into the water. When I bodysurfed in, she says "I saw you looking at that ugly Asian girl".
Many years ago, I DEERed all accusations of looking. This sometimes resulted in long running arguments. About 6-7 years ago I quit giving a shit. I'd just grunt or ignore her. This time, I told her I like brown girls, but prefer Latin ass (my wife is Latina), swat her ass, and then headed back out in the waves.
Next time I come in, she's on me, wanting a kiss, playing in the waves, clinging on as I pull her further out (she doesn't swim well, I'm muscular and a strong swimmer). She used to bitch about going more than knee deep, getting hair wet, etc. today she's laughing at having waves crash over her and me keeping her upright.
Decent passage of a shit test had solid results, but it seems like better can be had with further AA and AM. What has worked well for you guys in these types of shit tests?