I recently told my wife I want a divorce and after some denial and anger, she has moved into the bargaining phase. We had a long talk about what she can do to fix all the things that I'm unsatisfied with and has made some pretty significant changes immediately that have certainly helped make me more comfortable. However, I realized later that the conversation was basically just how she can reduce the negatives I experience, but there's no mention of the positives. That got me wondering what other men get out of marriage. I don't have and don't want kids, so that isn't a factor for me. I've lost my attraction for her and don't really care for sex with her. I have a group of good friends that I get together with for great conversations and fun. I don't know what positives she can bring me that I can't get elsewhere. What do you get out of your marriage? Am I missing something or is there no reason left for me to stay married?