I am a nice guy. I gave up on covert contracts, but I am still nice and like to help my wife. If she asks for things and I have no reason to say no I do it.

Well I often have no reason to say no cause I have not much to do - next goal will be a workshop for woodworking, so I get busy.

Let's say she brings in grocery and she asks me to help her while I am reading a book. I don't mind to lay down the book for a moment to help her.

You guys always explain how to not think about what women will think and being in frame. But maybe I am too much a faggot to see that I am failing shittests there.