Will keep this short. Quick background, M30 married F28, no kids yet (another issue). Both 7 - 8's. Both physicall fit and work out. I have a very good job and a very high income, she is SAHW. I have definitely become the push over beta over the last couple years. Dead bedroom the last year. Only swallowed the pill a week ago, and have read pretty much everything on here since then. Even getting through the books in side panel.
Only been a week, but she hasnt responded well to the new alpha responses and STFU. Seems initially to have got even worse, wont come near me and is moody now because of "how i've been acting this last week" and "no longer talking to me". Is this normal in the early stages or have I gone too Rambo?
Bit of background, obvs I always initiated in the bedroom, shut down 90% of the time, if not then i'd get some pity sex. How are we supposed to act like we dont want it, yet still initiate and get rejected? Understand dont show any bother by getting rejected, which ive now implemented. But it seems like a catch 22, act like u dont want it yet still initiate. it seems with me if I dont initiate then it wont happen. Again maybe i'm expecting results too early.