For those spinning plates, obviously---
Yes, I've seen other women. No, my wife hasnt found out.
Mainly do it casually, not much past kissing. Its pretty much the thrill of the hunt for me. Still, enough to count as cheating I'm sure, and blow up in my face. For those in a similar position, how would you handle if your wife found out?
A friend of mine's affair was discovered a few years ago. They tried to work things out which consisted of him profusely apologizing every day, and agreeing to let her track his every whereabouts (and she would do drive by's to make sure he was where his phone said he was). Over time he became angry and disillusioned with her as she was unable to forgive him. They got divorced.
Eta: maybe more specifically what if she asked you to leave the house? Or to monitor your phone? Or things like that.