OK I'm fairly new to TRP community and im slowly crawling my way up integrating it into my life.
Shit with my wife has been rocky, i was unknowingly redpill (military, fit, high value, abundance mentality, attractive girls around, i can go on but you don't care) when we got married and turned into a beta bitch along the way, the results have been typical. Getting back to where i was is a work in progress.
shes been giving me shit about this chick in my class, at first i got defensive about it and it obviously made shit worse.girl is hot, younger than my wife, and definitely dtf.
After about a week i remembered my red pill reading and started with agree/amplify, and just being amused when she tries to start with her jealousy bs. Shit like agreeing that the chick is my girlfriend and that i def want to fuck her as well as a few others in the class, but telling her that they would be just for fun and shes still the one i want.
chick and her husband had a cookout, and she had the idea of me bringing my wife so that she could see her with her husband and maybe the suspicion would go away, chick shit. My wife is not stupid and i've seen some redpill shit come out of her mouth several times.
result being, wife saw through the girls shit, straight up told me she knew the girl was playing it up with her husband so my wife would see it, and that she noticed the chicks body language was all about me
THIS IS THE FUCKING SHIT TEST- my wife, after meeting this younger chick that she is sure wants me, told me she would not get pissed if i picked up a side piece- as long as i don't lie to her and she doesn't lose her place as queen bitch. She even made a bet with me where if i get this chick in bed, wife wins and her prize is an expensive vacation for us as well as getting her tits (36 a) and ass done (doesn't need it). We actually have a pretty good vacation paid for for 8 days in june right now.
WTF is this twilight zone shit? I don't think I haven't improved enough for my wife to have enough dread that she would rather share than lose. To add to this she told me a few years ago she had a fantasy of watching me fuck another girl, but it never came back up, and i also took a rando back to her hotel for a one nighter after a concert while my wife went home with my kid and this was the wifes idea. It feels like a set up.