Wife accusing me of cheating.

bogeyd6 · 2017-04-17T15:13:36+00:00

We do not condone illegal activity or encourage it. Asking her to break the law and calling it a shit test is just poor form.

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creating_my_life · 2017-04-15T23:30:07+00:00

So I have been lifting and reading and slowly upping dread and lately my wife is actively coming out and asking me if I'm cheating.

Are you cheating? If "no", then DGAF. If "yes", you have different issues.

I'm not as I'm too much of a beta to attract a woman but her hamster sure thinks so.

Attraction is mostly physical. But her hamster thinking so IT IS "dread".

now the behaviour has turned to my wife actively sabotaging my new hobby.

Of course she is. Why would she want to lose her steady stream of resources and attention that she puts little effort into? She doesn't WANT change. You improving yourself is FORCING the change. That was the whole point for you.

If she does not sign the form they will call her.

Okay.

She refused to sign the form because I'm an alchoholic. Quit 3 years ago.

Wait until she refuses to sign, and then your license gets denied. follow the process.

You do you.

Westernhagen · 2017-04-16T04:15:26+00:00

As part of the licence application they request a signature from the wife to confirm she has no fears of me obtaining the licence.

AYFKM? This can't be happening in the USA. In my state, they don't even ask for wifey to sign off on a concealed carry permit.

knowncitizen · 2017-04-16T00:55:09+00:00

So she specifically said "I'm not signing this because I think you're cheating." Or did you just hamster that she must not be signing it because she thinks you're cheating?

screechhater · 2017-04-17T02:26:08+00:00

Listen up. Until you improve yourself and own your shit, consistently acting like a man of value, you have no fucking business asking her or taunting yourself about a gun. None.

Perhaps the elephant in the room is that fucking ego that stands in your way of improving so much, that cheating comments, tackling alcoholism and depression are attaboys instead of accusations of failing beta behavior looking for validation

Wake up dude, she is telling you to wake up and a few us are too.

Persaeus · 2017-04-16T17:22:58+00:00

I am going to echo Bogey from another post, thank god for America

USA USA USA USA USA USA USA

Seriously, choosing between your wife and your guns. Get divorced and get your gun.

InChargeMan · 2017-04-16T18:42:38+00:00

"No, I don't believe in cheating. (pause long enough for her to think your still her Beta Bitch) When I'm ready to start fucking other women I'll let you know."

EagleDarkX · 2017-04-17T09:00:08+00:00

IDK, you just seem butthurt that you can't get your toy.

zeteomegaleio · 2017-04-16T00:49:50+00:00

It might not seem like it in the moment, but this isn't a bad thing in the long run.

Your gun license is temporarily on hold. Use this as an opportunity to exercise patience. This shouldn't be more than a week or two delay unless you fuck it all up, as I expect something is going to have to give and I'm sure she will eventually want to have "a very serious talk" with you.

Pre-emptive: this is almost certainly not going to be a Main Event.

Do not whine or argue with her about signing the form. Do not let her see that you're pissed - don't give her that power over you. Don't make a shitty comment, don't say anything that shows you are pissed off. Do not let her have any power over your emotions here or she will use this as leverage to manipulate you back into beta behaviors.

What you're missing is that this is all working. If she tries to pull you into a fight about you cheating, you have opportunities to put into practice what you've learned so far.

What do you do with women who are bitchy and shitty to you? Withdraw your attention and affection.

She wants to be a bitch and not sign the form that helps your hobby? Ok, smile and tell her goodbye as you're leaving to go to the gym again. Take it out on the iron for now.

Good wives get attention. Good wives don't sabotage their husband's hobbies.

The more you DGAF, the more you're going to win. You want to be like Jocko here and just respond to everything happening with "Good."

knowncitizen · 2017-04-16T00:24:13+00:00

You gonna post everytime she cries or throws out dumb shit?

LaLongCarabine · 2017-04-16T18:09:04+00:00

Mine has her hamster in full gear, went off on me concerning just about everything. Said I thought I was "King Shit". I just smiled and nodded. Then she said I should find somebody else to sleep with because "you think you're hot shit". I smiled again and A&A'd "I'll pick one out of line". Then I went out to my garage to clean from a range trip.

The next morning she rolled over and initiated.

Acta non verba

RPShitlord · 2017-04-17T12:19:28+00:00

Put the paper in front of her and tell her that your wife won't stand in the way of her husband's 2A rights.

Mean it.

BrazilRedPill · 2017-04-16T00:00:17+00:00

Say that you do have a lover. When she starts to complain, say that she is your lover so far, as long as she behaves well in bed.

Title	Wife accusing me of cheating.
Author	knowncitizen
Upvotes	16
Comments	29
Date	15 April 2017 11:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/206277
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/65m4cp/wife_accusing_me_of_cheating/