DAE experience Low Sex Drive?

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April 14, 2017

Hi guys,

Does anybody else experience low sex drive?

I lift. I don't fap. My wife is in shape and pretty. I don't have trouble keeping it up. And I was always low sex drive.

Currently I just prefer working on my goals or just relaxing with a book or just sleep.

Today wifey insisted, that we better fuck tonight, and I'll probably initiate. And now that I think about it, it's also good sex. But starfish sex. Though she always comes.

There's a chance that I just sleep, because work and gym is tiring.

I don't believe a low frequency is normal for Alpha males.

Do you have any suggestions? Should I work on this area? I feel like she is just a hot distraction. I have read Devi but not implemented it thoroughly.

Also I believe if a new woman were waiting for me in the bedroom, I would not hesitate to fuck her and leave all my goals aside, which makes me think, that maybe the problem is not my not properly functioning sex drive, but that it's the same dish everyday.

How did you guys solve, fucking the same woman everytime and still wanting to do it often?

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Title DAE experience Low Sex Drive?
Author FailingBillionaire
Upvotes 8
Comments 15
Date 14 April 2017 09:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/206284
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/65fgsi/dae_experience_low_sex_drive/
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[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Like anything there is a continuum of sexual drive.

But...have you always been like this...are you changing with age...did your wife piss you off and the wife goggles are off...do you see random hot chicks and get the urge to bang 'em...many variables.

If you're looking for others' specific input, I'm not ancient and I'm not young but when I see naked, big boobs I want to get busy. This could be multiple times per day if possible. Boobs.

In short, it can vary. But the main question for you is why it's changed.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just an aside, I'm older than most here.... Yes, Boobs.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Saggy boobs for you... ;-)

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

boobs is boobs

[–]innominating4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have this why bother attitude from time to time. Monogamy is monotonous.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get your prolactin and T checked. Low libido can be attributed to these two hormones. I went from 0 to 100 after finding out I had high prolactin and low T and getting treatment.

[–]Soberskipper3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

As blue pill as this sounds you need to change it up in the bedroom. Beans on toast is a beautiful breakfast but after one month straight it's not the same. You haven't lost your drive because your looking to fuck some strange. Take the lead and implement something different, eg. Tie the bitch up, get her to dress up immaculately and seduce her at a restaurant in the toilets, hotel room her like she's a plate. There's loads of shit you can do that's vanilla but different that might create a new lease of excitement and desire towards her for you. At least your wife wants to fuck you, that's a good start.

[–]FailingBillionaire0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you very much. Will focus on changing it up.

[–]freshona4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you don't want to do something often, why force yourself?

I ran into this as well, once I read more and more on TRP et al. I felt like I HAVE TO be fucking my wife every time I get a chance, because... TRP says so.

Fuck trp. Do it when you want, not when weirdos on the internet tell you to.

[–]nastynickdrRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

1) Do you fap? If you do, try stopping for a while (a couple months would be good)

2) Is your diet good, healthy? Eating real food? Enough good fats? 8 hours of sleep each night?

3) Check your testosterone / estrogen / prolactin levels

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

good sex. But starfish sex. Though she always comes.

No it's not. Starfish is bad sex. She does not always cum but fakes it to get it over. She may also be tamping down her responses because she senses you are not into it AND you have not given her permission to let out her inner slut.

First up, get your T checked.

Second, I think you should fuck her (or at least get her off) every 2-4 days whether you want it right then or not. Sex builds T almost as much as lifting so fake it before you make it.

Third, try something different. Bondage, rape fantasy, anal, have her read a hot sex scene out loud while you eat her out, watch a random porn scene with her and then do it. I would stay away from searches like "Dubai Port-a-potties" for my scene but that is just my preference.

Finally, Sex God Method.

[–]OldRoke1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have opposite, sometimes feel it would be a blessing to be more like you. Does yours fluctuate or always like this?

[–]crimson_chris1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't know if it has anything to do with being alpha. I am sure there are a lot of BB with high sex drives. Does it bother you? Is your wife looking for some strange? If no...carry on.

Everyone is different. I am 41 and have been with my wife for almost 22yrs (dating + marriage) but I still want to fuck the shit out of her. My sex drive used to be a 10 (wanted it all day - every day) I am more like a 6-7 now.

I do take suppliments now (Iron, Vit-D, Omega-3, L-arginine, Zinc) but I found that eating healthy makes a huge difference in my libido. Specifcally kale and collards greens. Some of the healthiest stuff on the planet.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You sound completely indifferent and there's a lot of feels flying around here. How's your drive in other activities? After workouts do you feel pumped up emotionally? Is there anything that gets that blood flowing like music, playing sports, etc.?

[–]Chinny4daWinny0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know exactly what you mean. A lot of the times I would rather watch porn and masterbate rather than have sex because it takes less energy, I can have a new woman to get off to and I can get back to reading/doing whatever I was doing faster.

If it was another girl I see on the streets or my dorm I would have no problem fucking her in 2 seconds, but like the last girl I fucked, after you've fucked them a few times the novelty wears off and you're looking for your next target.

Having sex with my girlfriend daily has gone from a dream that 2 years ago I would think was heaven to almost a burden for lack of better terms.

What I've done to remedy this is have sex at different times, have sex with her wearing clothes, just panties, very low-cut shirts with no bra, or something just to change the visuals instead of fucking naked and it has been working. Different locations, bondage, anal play and (light) slapping also helps.

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