AM used on you, how to handle?

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April 12, 2017

So I have been trying to identify shit tests with my wife and replying with AM and AA. It has been slow going since I only recently swallowed the red pill. One thing today that she did in a conversation was to use AM on me, or I at least think it was. We have always been able to joke with each other without issue in the past but I wanted some input about 1) if it was AM or she was just joking? 2) What would have been the best response from others.

The conversation started with her simply asking me if I had a Kreig Jig. I do since I do wood working sometimes and its a life saver. I told her I did and its awesome. She responded with "Cool, I might do something?" This immediately made me think because she didn't volunteer what she was doing immediately and wanted to use my stuff. I am not OCD about my tools and she owns a construction company so she is handy herself but I was still weary on how to answer back. I replied with "What is something? Dont fuck up my tools." Her response to this was the penguin voice from the Madagascar movie "You didn't see anything". I just replied with " I smell a Pintrest project in full bloom." To which she replied "Smmmeeeelllll what the Rock is cooking!!" and walked out of the kitchen. I left it at that and didn't say anything else. I was laughing on the inside but wasn't sure if I just had AM used on me or if I am just overthinking the whole thing like a noob.

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Title AM used on you, how to handle?
Author eranwolf
Upvotes 6
Comments 17
Date 12 April 2017 05:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]InChargeManRed Beret28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her response to this was the penguin voice from the Madagascar movie "You didn't see anything"

To which she replied "Smmmeeeelllll what the Rock is cooking!!" and walked out of the kitchen

Dear Reddit: I have a wife with a sense of humor and she is funnier than me. HELP!!!

[–]Blunter-S-Thompson2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahahaha! Wait...

Let me check with my wife to see if that was funny.

[–]A_RexRED KNIGHT15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're overthinking it. She's in a silly mood and being funny.

Have fun back. If she takes it, tell her the rental fee is a BJ a day.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Oh I got a rock for my pants..."

Flirt you dolt... Picture her with cute pigtails and have some fun. You're making it a cage match that has no winner.

[–]youcantdenythat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women are naturally good at AA and AM. Us poor unsocial bastards have to learn it manually to try to keep up with them.

[–]mtdog5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

You let her fuck other dudes for years, then you didn't, then she "cheated", and now you can't take a joke.

She's probably building a box for your balls.

[–]redditJ50 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Who put this dick in a box?

[–]Mildly_Sociopathic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No, the box is for OPs balls.

[–]BobbyPeru1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are in her frame and overthinking it.

Man, it's hard to find chicks that can be funny, so that's a good quality. Most chicks take subtle jokes literally and argue a non-existent point (the argue the opposite side of a joke because they don't get it). Then, they laugh at the horrible obvious jokes.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You need to work on your frame You definitely are overthinking it

When you are in your "frame" this shit becomes easy to laugh at and you will get a chuckle out of it

Question have you read MMSLP ? The reason I ask is, you would be screwing something together or would your prefer to get nailed ? got it ?

[–]eranwolf0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I actually just started reading MMSLP. Frame is obviously something I need to work on. We have always been able to joke with each other. I've found myself overthinking and trying to identify everything as a shit test lately though. I need to just dial it back.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

relax if you realize this will take some time, it will be natural

I truly chilled the fuck out and went IDGAF mode last April my wife has had some real eruptions realizing, I was taking the reigns of the relationship and would not fuck with her shitty disrespectful attitude, with my actions. I have looked @ her like a teen and commanded to know "just who in the fuck do you think you are talking to in that tone ?"

It's much easier to avoid RedpillRambo and improve so much her head starts to spin

[–]RPAlternate42Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You better give up, it sounds like she's cucking you as I type this.

She made a joke... get out of your own head.

[–]crimson_chris1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy's a good sign. It's called flirting. Enjoy.

[–]resolutions3160 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah dude. Stop overthinking it. Not everything is a test, not everything is a power play.

You joked with her, she joked with you - you had a fun, light conversation.

If it was a strong boundary with you - "you will not use my tools" - I'd get it. This just sounds like two people having fun. Make it flirty, lighten up, enjoy what's there to be enjoyed.

By the way, nothing above really matches my conception of "Amused Mastery", but that may just be me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is your biggest problem?

[–]eranwolf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hardly, this was just a question to see if I am overthinking. Based on the responses, it looks that way.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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