First time poster,.lurked for a month or two. Situation:shit marriage for years,finally pulled my head out of my ass a year ago.started lifting,lost 60 lbs,joined bjj class.overall just improved myself all around.
Only problem is that I did this unguided so to speak.wasn't redpill aware so I puked a serious amount of blue pill faggotry into the marriage at the same time.trips and gifts I couldn't afford,long talks and notes about our "relationship".pretty much got a perfect score on the faggot meter.
A month ago I found mrp and realized my mistakes.read the sidebar,tried to internalize and practice frame and pass shit tests etc.
Too late it seems.she wants out which in the long run I'm happy with.problem is she wants every fucking penny she can get out of me.if I find a dollar in the gutter I half expect her to pop out of the alley screeching I get half.
On the plus side my oneitis died fast and hard.my special snowflake is a merciless,cold blooded cunt.
Where I need advice is that I am stuck living in the house with her for 6 months until the house sells and the kids are ready.she pushes every button and trigger I have and after 13 years she knows my weaknesses.
I have had anger issues in the past and she knows it.so how to I go from a weak ass frame that is constantly under attack to hard as iron frame that can get through this with pride,balls,and bankroll mostly intact? Mistakes I make now will seriously mess up my future.not entirety sure if mrp is my place since I lost my marriage but trp is full of teenagers trying to get laid.i need the council of captains who have been through the fire.