Most people here talk about sex, but what about when the wife doesn't show much emotion, not even to me but in general - doesn't cry, doesn't laugh too much, tend to be cynical etc.

It is like she is trying to avoid being vulnerable with me. Do you think she may be reserved because she feels I'm not strong enough to lean on?

And before anyone asks: yes, I lift, I read, I meditate. Applying dread too.